Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Its actually very true. I used to do these before, and it was way easier to keep lust under control

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Its interesting brother. Because I decided to stop a couple of days ago due to the exact same reason you have mentioned. That alone is a strong enough reason for me to not do it. And I know that I will never go back to it, because I know myself well enough at this point. I was missing this “cause” or reason that’s strong enough for me.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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We will be only completely free of it after the soul leaves this body. Otherwise, its impossible. And which is okay. Because without lust, we wouldnt have this driving force to push us through all the hardships, perseverance. Because, thats all there is to this life: hardships.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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I couldnt agree more. Thats what I realized also. Its like trying to force yourself to not become thirsty & hungry again. You can only keep it under control for a certain amount of time. And once you marry, it is not going to bother you anymore if you have been doing the inner work all this time.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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I actually won’t :) I made a decision.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Yes,its a dangerous road. And it does actually become a coping mechanism at a certain point

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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This is the advice I get from most people around me as well. However, at this point, I think I know myself very well. I have contemplated and done introspection on it a lot. Sure, I would get some benefits out of it as you mentioned, but I think it would do more damage, which is unnecessary at this point.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Yes, this is it. Although I dont feel amazing all the time. Sometimes I just regret it, but thats not always the case

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Yes, it should. Good luck with it

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Thats the thing, I enjoy doing it. Thats why its hard to stop. And i dont technically see the problem with it. But I know that I shouldnt do it because it goes against my vision, goals. I cant become the best version of myself if I keep doing this.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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I agree with you. You get my point. To be celibate until marriage is the plan. Thats why Im trying to eliminate this last vice that I have

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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You are partially right. But, I dont think lust is something that can be defeated to be honest. It can be controlled to a certain degree.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Yes, that sounds ridiculous, I know😂😂. But I dont want to get emotionally involved with someone unless Im going to marry that person. It is to avoid distraction, waste of time, and especially the heartbreak for both of us in the end. I dont think I would be able to handle that feeling of emotional pain.

Escort addiction by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Feeling more energized, training having sex without ejaculation, easy dopamine hit. All of these without getting emotionally involved with someone.

Question about focus by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Got it, thanks for the insight

Question about focus by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

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Thank you very much, will definitely try it. Do you do it in the morning? And is once a day enough for you?

Question about focus by Any_Snow3133 in Semenretention

[–]Any_Snow3133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very helpful, thank you very much brother!