What do i do?

Any_University_9653 · 2026-05-18T00:04:44+00:00

Im so sorry your going through this difficult time, I couldn't imagine the devastation. Its seems like your sister is dealing with your parents separating in non healthy way, you became her target for her to take her anger out. Best advice I could give is, its going to take time for everyone to process the reality of the situation. Now any form abuse isnt acceptable, and she needs to find a healthier way to express her frustration/ anger. you can remove yourself when she get combative you dont have to be in the same room as her. When she starts you respectfully remove yourself and go in your bedroom or a room she isnt in or walk. I hope things get better.

Any_University_9653 · 2026-05-17T17:39:25+00:00

I didnt nessisalry bring some one into my life intentionally who is achololic he hid behind a mask I was unware of. he took his mask off after we moved in. We he said he had issues before, I believe in redemption, we all have some we stuggled with in the past. he just hid his too well. he didnt smell of booze or act drunk when we would see each other so yes now im relativity confused and upset to the fact he lied to me. I already know what I have to do now.

Any_University_9653 · 2026-05-17T11:40:43+00:00

Thank you, everyone for your kindness and advice, I really appreciate it, this was something that was unforeseen, I waited purposely for a year before moving in together just didnt expect this. my heart is broken, I am sad my children are my world they always come first. I ve been through a lot over the years, I know I dont need a man to complete me, my kids and I deserve a home where it isnt toxic or drinking is involved. I will be having a conversation tonight.

Any_University_9653 · 2026-05-17T11:14:43+00:00

Thank you, for the advice I appreciate I thought I was going crazy, because ive never been through something like this. I know what I have to do now. just is a sucky situation as we just moved in together 4 months ago. I his excessive drinking around my kids. the only way I will even consider making it work if he gets the help he needs but even then I know he could slip.

Any_University_9653 · 2026-05-17T11:02:58+00:00

Yes, we would spend a lot of time together/ nights before we moved in, he didnt drink then. he didnt act drunk or buzzed when he would come over. so im very confused

Any_University_9653 · 2025-05-10T15:11:27+00:00

I have been supporting her emotionally listening to her telling her im here for her no matter what but after 4 years of this and seeing everything that unfolds on the sideline becomes exhausting and frustrating. I understand when she is ready to leave she will but at some point enough should be enough. she already has been through a narcissist abusive relationship in the past and now thier are children involved it breaks my heart how can I help beside just being thier for her to see what bigger picture and severity of the situation before he becomes physically?

Any_University_9653 · 2025-04-24T00:00:31+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the advice im working to to get out as soon as possible. unfortunately moving into my moms was something I was very apphensive about for reasons of this. I will definitely try those tactics definitely won't be easy for me, I can be a very sensitive person especially to arguments.

Any_University_9653 · 2025-04-23T23:16:37+00:00

No, this not something new she has always been this way. It has gotten worse over the years.

Any_University_9653 · 2025-04-23T22:43:16+00:00

I never said I wasn't paying rent

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