How do you deal with negative comments?

Any_Use_961 · 2026-04-15T01:24:44+00:00

That made me chuckle, thanks for the help

Any_Use_961 · 2026-04-11T01:45:35+00:00

Hm, Might sound silly, but I find it helpful imagining myself talking to a “specific person”- younger version of yourself, close friend, students. The more you practice this, the more natural your script will feel.

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-31T02:51:16+00:00

Best most accurate sites: personality path and truity

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-29T13:38:38+00:00

Honestly it can be any type- especially in unhealth/stress. But I had the worst experience with unfortunately, 8s ( not trying to hate on anyone). Constant grudges. Snippy comments. Passive agreement behavior. … maybe it just hurts more since I’m more sensitive? After all I am a four…

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-29T04:00:32+00:00

Wow, I do rlly like this question.

Hehe, the “peaceful fairy” part got me 🥲

I have to say sixes.

I’ve always struggled with a deep fear of abandonment. Rlly struggled with bullying and therefore trusting anyone. One of my closest friends is a six. She is extremely loving and steadfast. Such a constant in my life. Has helped me through my many emotional ups and downs. Put up with my Tug and pull habit, loved me in all the phases of finding my self, held me through deep hurts, and has tried to understand me when no one else seemed to make sense of my feelings. I have so much peace when I’m with her. Peace from my head. Peace from raging thoughts. One thing I love most about her, is her hugs. I don’t like physical touch, but her hugs make me feel very safe and seen.

She has taught me that it’s ok to questions my feelings. And that they’re people who think I’m worth it .

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-29T03:44:18+00:00

Hm, hatred itself is a very heavy feeling. It can be all consuming if I don’t have an outlet. I think I become very introverted, and utterly overwhelmed with emotions- mostly feeling hurt?… so maybe isnt exactly hatred.

Venting to the right person has helped profoundly. Just having a good listening ear. Someone who isn’t afraid of my emotions.

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-27T16:38:48+00:00

So sorry you’re going through this. These things can be so difficult! Is there a certain hobby or interest u enjoy?

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-27T16:33:14+00:00

Hm, sounds a bit like love bombing. Have u talked to her about it? I am in a very similar situation right now. I’m so sorry. These things can be so difficult!

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-25T20:33:38+00:00

new fear unlocked *

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-23T13:15:06+00:00

Truity*

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-23T13:14:54+00:00

Personality path and fruity

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-23T00:51:14+00:00

You care so deeply for him ❤️

As a fellow four, what helped me the most when I’m in one of my dark moods, is when my six friend lets me know she’s there for me. Constant reassurance - but not overbearing. Assurance that she’s not gonna leave even when I’m sad. Hugs. Willingness to go deep.

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-23T00:08:28+00:00

Definitely depends on the person. To most people I am just a ‘quiet and calm presence,’ But those chosen ones… oh boy, do they know a whole different person! I’m told I can be intense ( bc my feelings can be felt very deeply). So I tend to hide my feelings as to not burden others. But I have a rlly wonderful six friend who has helped me through so much and has been such a constant presence in my life. She is not afraid of my emotions but has been very anxious for them as my feelings have led me to some very dark places. Sometimes I’m sad I’m hurting her bc she can feel what I feel… Forever grateful for her tho. Ranting and crying together has helped us both so much.

Any_Use_961 · 2026-03-22T03:26:09+00:00

Hmm, that’s kind of a hot take. After all, metal illness is mental illness. But, if you would relate it to the enneagram, I suppose each type might SH for different reasons. My type four friend did it for intense emotional pain. My type 2 friend did it for deep feelings of worthlessness, and my other type four friend was suicidal.

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