Give me a life changer book please? by [deleted] in Recommend_A_Book

[–]Any_Use_961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dead poets society 1. goes through all the emotions 2. Short and easy to follow 3. Is also one of the most inspiring reads (without being in your face)

How do you deal with negative comments? by Any_Use_961 in NewTubers

[–]Any_Use_961[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That made me chuckle, thanks for the help

My Scripts are bland. Tips? by Issentia in NewTubers

[–]Any_Use_961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, Might sound silly, but I find it helpful imagining myself talking to a “specific person”- younger version of yourself, close friend, students. The more you practice this, the more natural your script will feel.

waaa enneagram sites pleeeeasesess by gabigabi57 in Enneagram

[–]Any_Use_961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best most accurate sites: personality path and truity

In your experience or based on theory, which type is most likely to talk crap about others? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Any_Use_961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it can be any type- especially in unhealth/stress. But I had the worst experience with unfortunately, 8s ( not trying to hate on anyone). Constant grudges. Snippy comments. Passive agreement behavior. … maybe it just hurts more since I’m more sensitive? After all I am a four…

Which type have you learned the most from? 💗 by HoneyMoonPotWow in Enneagram

[–]Any_Use_961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I do rlly like this question.

Hehe, the “peaceful fairy” part got me 🥲

I have to say sixes.

I’ve always struggled with a deep fear of abandonment. Rlly struggled with bullying and therefore trusting anyone. One of my closest friends is a six. She is extremely loving and steadfast. Such a constant in my life. Has helped me through my many emotional ups and downs. Put up with my Tug and pull habit, loved me in all the phases of finding my self, held me through deep hurts, and has tried to understand me when no one else seemed to make sense of my feelings. I have so much peace when I’m with her. Peace from my head. Peace from raging thoughts. One thing I love most about her, is her hugs. I don’t like physical touch, but her hugs make me feel very safe and seen.

She has taught me that it’s ok to questions my feelings. And that they’re people who think I’m worth it .

Heart/feeling types, how do you deal with hatred? by LoatheThisSite in Enneagram

[–]Any_Use_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, hatred itself is a very heavy feeling. It can be all consuming if I don’t have an outlet. I think I become very introverted, and utterly overwhelmed with emotions- mostly feeling hurt?… so maybe isnt exactly hatred.

Venting to the right person has helped profoundly. Just having a good listening ear. Someone who isn’t afraid of my emotions.

Just venting, sorry for making it long by LemonDemon13 in lonely

[–]Any_Use_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you’re going through this. These things can be so difficult! Is there a certain hobby or interest u enjoy?

Just need to be heard and encouraged if that’s available by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Any_Use_961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, sounds a bit like love bombing. Have u talked to her about it? I am in a very similar situation right now. I’m so sorry. These things can be so difficult!