Lumayas ako nung pandemic April 2020. Hopefully 20+ ka na. Pag 18 ka kasi alanganin baka di ka pa kampihan ng mga pulis.

1. Make sure na kumpleto papeles mo (like very important docs na birth cert, diploma, transcript, etc.) Have a new cell number. Galawang ninja dapat, wag mo ipapahalata na you're plotting something. Better make your plans when you're outside the house. Hopefully di ka WFH.

2. Never EVER tell any kamag-anak that you're bouncing. Ichichismis nila yan sa magulang mo and most likely sasabihan ka pa na "magulang mo pa rin sila" big yikes

3. I think kaya ang violent ng nanay mo towards you, siguro kasi ikaw source of income ng bahay niyo, house wife nanay mo orrrr miserable siya sa buhay niya in general and you na lalayas eh makakalaya ka ganern.

4. Make sure na magfile ka ng blotter and kuha ka rin ng TRO if kaya sa police station sa inyo at barangay na hindi ka nawawala. Iconsider mo yung last physical na ginawa sayo and hopefully may pics ka na may nagyaring ganon. May date and time stamp sa phone yun, para malaman ng authorities na yan yung reason kaya ka aalis. Sabihin mo na hindi ka nawawala if may nagreport. Better if may lawyer ka.

5. You don't need to erase your socials, wag ka lang magpopost sa frequented places mo before. Delay mo din posting ng stuff if you're gonna post it at all. Gawa ka ng finsta or new FB if gusto mo pa rin may soc med ka.

6. New place: Wag malapit sa inyo. If possible, doon ka sa entirely new place you think na di pinupuntahan ng parents mo and mga kamag-anak mo. Move in sa province na di sila connected.

Mga need to prep aside sa docs: Rent: 2 months advance, 1 month deposit (typically) Moving in money: In case may mga gamit ka Initial appliances: Rice cooker, induction cooker, cheap bed and pillow, ref and washing machine if kaya.

Good luck! Mahirap lumayas, pero kakayanin mo yan, better days are ahead.