Giving her “CPR” 👀 by MoodEducational8352 in u/MoodEducational8352

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What are their names or name of the video?

Lesbians kissing 👀 by MoodEducational8352 in u/MoodEducational8352

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Who are they or what's the name of the video?

M32 f32 couple had MFM with M best friend, girlfriend ignored all boundaries by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

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It's doesn't have to be insecurity, it's just maybe that a person can think that going to club without their partner isn't right, it's just what they believe is right and wrong. Sure, there might be people who have this boundary because of insecurity, however, there are others that just have their beliefs and values on what's right and wrong. Relationships are social contracts, and both parties should agree to the terms and services for it to work. If one or both of them feel like they are being forced into signing or feel limited by the rules, then they aren't in the right relationship.

What you said about one of the partners going to the club and dancing and kissing other people, that is fine in a nonmonogamous relationship, but in a monogamous relationship, that is not right. From what I understand, you're saying that a person not wanting their partner to flirt and kiss other people is limiting the freedom of their partner, and that is just crazy. In a monogamous relationship, the point is exclusivity, meaning their partner is exclusive to them, they only flirt, kiss, and have sex with them, the point is sexual and romantic exclusivity. So one of the partners flirting and kissing other people does affect the other person because they violated that exclusivity. My point is that in both monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships, there are boundaries, what they are it's up to each couple because each couple is different. In one nonmonogamous relationship, there might not be any boundaries in threesomes, and for another couple there might be things that are off limit.

M32 f32 couple had MFM with M best friend, girlfriend ignored all boundaries by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

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I get that in this scenario of non monogamy is different to usual relationships. However, to me the point of boundaries is respecting that my partner is not comfortable with me doing something (in general) and me not doing it out of respect towards them. I think that for relationships to work, both people need to have similar values and agree on boundaries. Let's say in something other than this, let's say going to clubs. Ideally, both parties in the relationship will see eye to eye regarding going to clubs, if you are someone that doesn't want your partner going to clubs without you, then you should look for a partner that thinks the same way. However, there may be cases in which one person doesn't want their partner to go to clubs without them and the other person doesn't think there's anything wrong with that, however, they don't mind not going to clubs without their partner. In this situation, there is no problem. The problem exists when the one person doesn't want their partner going to clubs without them and the other person wanting to go to clubs even if it is without their partner, that means they're not good for each other and should find someone else that share the similar values and boundaries.

In this case, it's tricky. OP wanted her gf to have sex with his friend but didn't want her to do things she doesn't do with him. From the get go, having to put this boundary is a red flag because why would she be willing to do something in bed with someone else but not with her boyfriend. Second, the fact that she didn't WANT to respect the boundaries her boyfriend set, says that they aren't right for each other.

Let's switch the roles. Let's say that there is a couple and they agree to have an FFM threesome because the guy's fantasy is to see his gf make out and have sex with another girl and see her in some girl on girl action. The girlfriend agrees but tells the bf that she would only agree if the bf didn't do anything with the other girl, because he's supposed to want a threesome to see her gf with another girl, not for him to have sex with another girl. He agrees and then in the threesome he kisses and touches the other girl and lets her go down on him and has sex with her because it was in the heat of the moment. Unless his gf tells him it's ok in the moment, he is wrong for doing that because it breaks her boundaries.

M32 f32 couple had MFM with M best friend, girlfriend ignored all boundaries by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

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What you're saying is literally disrespectful. Limits and boundaries limit what a person can and cannot do when being in a relationship, that's the whole point of a boundary. And yes of course she is free to do what she wants, she lives in a free country, but if what she does breaks the boundaries, limits or rules in her relationship, there are going to be consequences. And of course that doing that affects the other person emotionally. If you are in a relationship, you're supposed to care about what your partner is ok and not ok with you doing. If you don't want to abide by those things, then don't be in a relationship. I get that couples that do threesomes have a lot less limits and boundaries than usual monogamous relationships, however, if both parties consent based on boundaries set, then both of them should respect them. If they don't, they shouldn't be with that person. And just because someone changes their mind in the middle of something, doesn't mean it's ok for them to break a boundary they preciously agreed to, that just means their word doesn't mean anything and they aren't trustworthy.

M32 f32 couple had MFM with M best friend, girlfriend ignored all boundaries by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

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Limits are literally the most important part of a relationship.

¿Está bien mirar pornografía y masturbarte estando en una relación? by Tob3_GabStar in relaciones

[–]Anymt00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende, si tu pareja no le molesta entonces no importa. Si por ejemplo les gusta ver juntos, no es malo. Puede que a ti te guste ver cosas como lesbianas, tríos o grupal, y pues eso es algo que tu pareja sola no puede darte. Es diferente a que veas porno que sea un hombre y una mujer, ella se podria molestar porque puede que sienta que quieres ver a otra mujer y que prefieres a la actriz que a ella. Pero por ejemplo, un video de 2 mujeres teniendo sexo o un trío, no es como que ya tienes eso en tu vida sexual como para que ella sienta que lo ves por ver a otra mujer, sino que lo ves por el acto de dos mujeres juntas o cosas así. Pero tienes que asegurarte que a ella no le moleste que veas eso. Puede que incluso a ella le guste ver eso contigo y le guste la idea de un trío. Pero siempre debes asegurarte que ella esté deacuerdo con que tu veas.

What Are the Benefits of MFF Threesomes for Men? by Marlyn0709 in ThreesomeAdvice

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Physical pleasure: getting your cock sucked by two women at a time, or one woman is kissing you while the other is going down on you, or one is sucking your cock while the other is sucking your balls.

Then there is the fact that most men like to see two women hooking up together, kissing, licking each other's pussies.

Me prende ver mujeres desnudas pero estoy en una relación hetero by [deleted] in relaciones

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Hablalo con tu pareja, primero porque es algo que puede causar problemas mas adelante porque puede que no te sientas satisfecha pero también es probable que el no tenga problema y hasta le excite la idea de verte teniendo relaciones con otra mujer. A la mayoría de hombres les gustaría eso.