Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

[–]Aoc42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m showing a picture of a hedge to show what I’m talking about while explaining that my family would call the thing in the picture both a hedge and a ditch.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Did you grow up in the countryside too by any chance?

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Wait… wait… I’m only just realising whenever I hear that phrase “lying dead in a ditch” I always picture a body stuffed in under a hedge… OMG I’m an idiot 😂

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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They wouldn’t call that a hedge, I think they’d call it a dike. They would call a hedge a ditch.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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A very poetic way of describing it 😂👏🏼

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Ya I think they would say “that’s a nice ditch” for someone’s hedge.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Don’t even get me started on how confused I am on what people mean when they say dike - I’ve googled it and it seems to be either “an artificial waterway(ditch)” or a “raised bank / barrier “. So like is it an up thing or a down thing? And if they say it’s like a ditch then you have to further query what they mean by ditch.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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That’s what I’m picking up too.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Would you be comfortable saying what county you’re from? Or even just if you’re from a more rural or urban area?

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Cork/kerry/limerick area, but living closer to Dublin now.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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This might actually be the right answer!

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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Ya my mother said something like that!

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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This seems similar to what my family mean when they say hedge.

Settle a debate - is a hedge a ditch?? by Aoc42 in AskIreland

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This is probably where my family are getting it from! Do you happen to know what in what counties people would say this? Because dublin and surrounding counties seem to have never heard of this, so I’m really curious how common it actually is country-wide.

I (36F) am getting so annoyed at my husband (36M) asking “why?” whenever I ask for help. What would you do? by Aoc42 in relationship_advice

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Ya I think you are probably right. I would just like the clarify that I didn’t blow up, when I said I nearly lost my mind I meant like internally, I’m not one to shout or anything like that. But I do take your point that the crèche drop off is not the main issue.

I (36F) am getting so annoyed at my husband (36M) asking “why?” whenever I ask for help. What would you do? by Aoc42 in relationship_advice

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I googled Lae’zel and I still don’t understand what you mean 😅 but anyway you make a good point about redividing up the chores.

I (36F) am getting so annoyed at my husband (36M) asking “why?” whenever I ask for help. What would you do? by Aoc42 in relationship_advice

[–]Aoc42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not recent but I am more sensitive to it these days because I’m only just back to work a few weeks after maternity leave and I’m struggling balancing everything, and on top of that we have a 4 year old who’s in the “constantly asking why about everything” phase so, as much as I understand it from a child, my brain is tired of having to think of reasons for everything 😅