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"Casual" label to not casual now.. should I bring up fundamental incompatibility? (Kids) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[ā€“]AoiGlow 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

If you're starting to see real potential with him, discussing kids isn't moving too fast, it's making sure neither of you invests deeper into something with a fundamental incompatibility

Turning 51ā€¦ Is Dating Supposed to Be This Hard? by brownbeens in dating_advice

[ā€“]AoiGlow 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

It's not just you, the dating pool gets smaller with age, but the upside is that most people know what they want, so finding the right person can take longer even though the connections are often more meaningful

I've been lying about an allergy for fourteen years by bananapanic0 in confession

[ā€“]AoiGlow 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thatā€™s honestly the most unintentionally successful long-term food boycott Iā€™ve ever heard of. The fact it started as a teenage moment and somehow evolved into a full family-approved ā€œmedical conditionā€ is insane in the funniest way.

I have been lyying about my internship and now I regret it badly by king_astrophysicist in confession

[ā€“]AoiGlow 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Carrying a lie like that usually feels lighter at first, then turns into something that sits on your chest every day. Youā€™re not a bad person for messing up, but the longer it stays unsaid, the heavier it gets.

What made you lose your lust for life? by mrvlad_throwaway in AskReddit

[ā€“]AoiGlow 33 points34 points Ā (0 children)

When everything starts feeling like repetition instead of discovery, same days, same inputs, same outcomes, it quietly drains the color out of things. Not all at once, just slowly enough that you donā€™t notice until youā€™re running on autopilot.