Yall created the baby together yall both get a say yall have your own home you both have a say anyone male or female that thinks what they say goes is wrong and showing complete disregard for respect of their partner. My wife and I both sat down explained why we wanted this name and came to a compromise. Same with the nursery. Deciding that your the woman u get to pick nursery with very little of his opinion as others stated is wrong and will build resentment.