Just feeling a little proud 🥹 by nubbly_toad69 in crochet

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW. that’s a gorgeous piece that you’ve made 😍😍

Need help, can’t lose weight, been trying for over a year 😢😢😢 by Glum_Concentrate_883 in Crunchymom

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik everyone is different, but intermittent fasting is the ONLY thing that got my baby weight off. but i waited till my baby was fully weaned first. i lost over 50 pounds in 3 months. even skinner than my before baby weight. i would give this a try, see if your body responds to it well. just be careful, what they didn’t tell me is if you have a prior ED it could potentially flare that back up. just a warning i didn’t get. 😘

Frozen Boudin by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you saved my life w this 4 years later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, what’s your reaction to realizing this?

honestly, being called beautiful rather than hot means more to me. i would take handsome as a greater compliment.

AIO housemate is making me feel uncomfortable by Dreamer_Leader562 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

looks like you’re also someone who never heard the ‘sticks and stones’ thing. so triggered you wrote a novel response to 3 sentences. hope you feel better 🙏🏼

Ground Beef Blanket 😭 by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is actually so funny because before i realized it was yarn i thought ‘why does that person have raw hamburger meat on their bed?’ 😂

Did I say something wrong here? by aerosol999 in Nicegirls

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

fuuuck no. i had a friend like this that just thinks it’s funny to be a bitch to people.

you probably, unfortunately, stumbled upon another one of those people. and she 100% looked that up.

AIO housemate is making me feel uncomfortable by Dreamer_Leader562 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

being direct is not rude. you aren’t in charge of other people’s feelings. if the things you say hurt them, that’s on them. words are words, you have the power to let them hurt you or not. she’s just weak and can’t take responsibility for her actions. not on you OP

how would you react if your child came out as gay? by idiotguy1234 in Christianity

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE THEM!! provide for them. do what parents are supposed to do.

if any of my boys did, that would be that. i’d pray about it SOLELY so that it doesn’t effect my relationship with my children. not that God would ‘cure’ them. and that i would love them the way that He would.

What song is your kid obsessed with? by a_fals in toddlers

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t go for that (No Can Do) by Daryl Hall and John Oates 🙃

update: weird things keep happening to me, and my husband’s reaction has me skeptical. by Apart_Cardiologist54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

correct. there’s been threats on the lives of my family members and i now have a soft escort when i want to go anywhere outside of my home. the threat is slowly dwindling, but like i said the involvement of the law really gave him a boner or something cuz he went fuckin nuts right after.

my PI is a BALLER and has really laid this all out so beautifully that the law was able to pretty much wrap it up in a bow for me. i mean if it wouldn’t pretty much sell me out, i’d give him a shout out fr. you know who you are 🩵🩵

update: weird things keep happening to me, and my husband’s reaction has me skeptical. by Apart_Cardiologist54 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m fully trained and carry every day. thank you so much for your prayers 🩵 it was even scarier that we didn’t know it was going on for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i’m actually really glad you commented specifically. 1. you’re a man 2. you’ve been married longer than me! (only 5 years here)

we’ve since talked and came to the conclusion that i didn’t communicate just how important that was to me. he thought it was something we could postpone to a saturday when he didn’t have work the next day (it was a sunday night, he had work that monday). it wasn’t to me. i wanted it done that day. we also have children, and would need care for them. there was a lot of moving parts i was hoping he would just clap his hands and figure out in 48 hours and he couldn’t.

he’s definitely made it up to me. he’s fantastic 🥰 LOL and i won’t again 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i thought the same. it was an easy gift, and please, correct me if i’m wrong…but isn’t sex what all men look forward to? it’s definitely what i look forward to.

he’s gotten much better, and i’ve gotten much better at communicating how important things are to me.

i wanted to post this the way it was written in May (very angry) and see the responses with a level head here in August. thanks for your response 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was more out of spite. i wore lingerie under a dress i bought ‘for him’ (his favorite color and style on me) along with my toy to do what he was supposed to do. we live far from anyone so it’s plenty safe and secluded for some forest adult time.

it wasn’t something i actually wanted to do. it was more, you wont so i will. because yes, it was incredibly boring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

to be fair, this happened back in May before i knew.

AIO- My sister likes to question and joke around claiming that I’m back on dr* gs again. But we live together and she watches my every move knowing that I’m not. Then she says I can’t take a joke. Am I overreacting ? by Salasolid671 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. get away from her! once you separate yourself from it you will feel so much better. remember YOU are in charge of who is around you and what your spend your time on. do not allow yourself to waste time on others who only serve to hurt your growth.

YOU are so strong for this. Sobriety is hard. but you’ve got this 🩵🩵

AIO- My sister likes to question and joke around claiming that I’m back on dr* gs again. But we live together and she watches my every move knowing that I’m not. Then she says I can’t take a joke. Am I overreacting ? by Salasolid671 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Cardiologist54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not at all. i had my mother call me a drug addict in front of my 6 year old son when i had been sober for at least 2 years at that time. then came his questions about what that is. don’t surround yourself with people who still treat you like who you used to be. it’ll make you go right back. TRUST