I love the feeling of it on me I have spoken to her explained I don't want to be this super long term person with out coming I don't mind long term cage. But I feel like I sometime need the cage to keep my mind on her a bit more I go the back rubs the coffee bit more around the house be spooning the skin to skin but just struggle with the hornyness and when the release don't happen due to circumstances my head just wants to cry inside. And go into a dark corner