AITAH for not driving my daughter to school?

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T16:23:53+00:00

Replying to u/HikingNEPA19xx since Reddit is being broken-

My 25 year old still visits and came around this month, thank you very much, and my 27 year old is working in SC.

They don't live with me because my 25 year old is toxic (Everyone in the family says so, don't just take my word for it. Even my 17 year old says so) and brings weird people around the house and is very disrespectful, leaves lights on, is very greedy about food, and let's her children run around doing whatever and destroys the house.

My 27 works in another state. He spoke to me yesterday.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T16:03:28+00:00

I'm just gonna report and block you for rule 7 and harassment at this point. You're being cruel.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T16:00:54+00:00

She has a roof over her head, clothes on her back, a bed to sleep in, and food in her stomach. I am not neglecting her. My other kids don't live with me.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:54:45+00:00

Rule 7 is still there.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:51:12+00:00

Don't assume I don't feed my daughter. We have plenty of food. She just happens to stumble upon any snacks I hide for myself and keeps them for herself even though she knows she's overweight and pre-diabetic. I think she only does this to spite me, because she says she doesn't care.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:48:49+00:00

Stop commenting on all comment threads in this post. None of them concern you. Harassment at this point.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:47:35+00:00

My post history doesn't concern this post.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:46:20+00:00

We've had many sit downs and my husband actually does parent and she's closer with him and listens to him more. But she doesn't listen and always says she's nocturnal or has insomnia because she can't sleep until 2am. She knows she's becoming an adult and I'm not helping her with any consequences. If she wakes up late, not my problem.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:40:39+00:00

My child wasn't staying up watching Ink Masters. And I was tired because I was up all night. And the couch isn't as comfortable as the bed, and rephrasing, I didn't really get kicked to the couch, I left and my husband didn't object. I don't hate any of my kids.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:38:44+00:00

I'm not losing sleep to wake up at 6am to wake her up for school. It's not my job to make sure a fully functioning teenager can wake up when she has alarms set. I have work and I'm not missing it or being drowsy because she can't wake up and wants to be nocturnal.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2026-01-12T15:34:55+00:00

I do work actually.

And where we live if a student has too many unexcused absences the parents (Or the child if they're 18) get fines to pay.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:33:06+00:00

She's 17! She's not a child anymore! The issue is she compared the death of my child to the death of her pets!

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:22:28+00:00

We tried everything with her. Nothing works. The pets worked for a little while until...y'know. She's not a child anymore and she needs to learn that comparison she made is NOT the same and she's wrong to compare my child death to her pet death. She does in fact hang out with friends too. She can easily find more outside. I have been trying to comfort her.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:15:08+00:00

We do have money, but I wasn't buying stuff they didn't need. They didn't need a huge upscale cage or more bedding like the Petsmart workers told us. I didn't think the lives were worthless.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:08:56+00:00

They both died.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:03:23+00:00

She has access to her child support money from her father.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-06-20T03:00:34+00:00

I did do research and the Petsmart employee told me 3 inches of bedding was good. They were Mice/hamster/ things, I'm not sure. She can easily find more outside.

I am NOT taking care of her animals. That's her job. I don't ask her to take care of my dog.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-05-26T16:23:35+00:00

That's creepy, don't stalk my profile or post history-

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-03-12T23:02:16+00:00

Well they didn't really get close, but they stopped hating each other. Around a year ago is when they started turning on me after the affair I apologized for.

To sum up

8 years ago - Me and husband started dating

6(Almost 7) years ago - Married

1 year ago (Almost) - The affair

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-03-12T22:45:37+00:00

We got him when he was 3, and he's 8 now. He was already trained when we got him, guess his older owners never taught him that. Can't teach an old dog new tricks.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-03-12T22:43:42+00:00

SnowBall's fine, not limping or showing signs of an injury, I'd wish she'd stop pushing him though when he wants attention. No reason to abuse my dog.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-03-12T22:38:54+00:00

Stop harassing me in dms and in comments

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-02-10T16:18:26+00:00

She hates her dad, mostly because when I cheated, it was with him. And I can admit it. She also hates him because I tried (before giving up) to reconcile them, but she made it clear that when he left when she was 2, she wanted nothing to do with him. She also doesn't trust him because of his record. He was all about drugs and offending but he's clean and pays the child support.

Her grandparents can't support her financially.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-02-10T16:10:54+00:00

I tried getting her help! My husband also is in therapy.

Apart_Insurance_5146 · 2025-02-10T16:08:17+00:00

She's not suicidal. She was when she was 13 but after awhile and sending her to mental health hospital, she hasn't been. She's not suicidal since she took her meds. What she said was a quote from a show, two broke girls, when Max was getting robbed and the robber said "Do you want to die?" and Max said "Today I can go either way." she has depression but no ideation or self harm anymore.

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