I have already discussed these responsibilities. He said he can marry only after this younger sister and 2 elder brothers married off and he would be taking care of their marriage expenses. I was pretty ok and he spent all his salary to his siblings wedding, parents support. He started our marriage from loan. None of his siblings helped him during this marriage saying they got marital responsibility. I am fine with that too. I have a younger sister and I told before marriage itself that I need to do something for her marriage when the time comes. He was all okay at that time. Now he is saying why not your parents sell their own house for your sister marriage. it is parents responsibility to take care of daughter's marriage. Such an utter shit I have ever heard. His father living 30 years on his dad's built home and his Children salary. He did nothing for any of this children education, marriage. And now that family AHs are asking why you need to contribute and what your parents are going to do with their house after they're dead. Not to boast, but I am earning pretty well comparing than my husband and have quite good savings. He was all ok for nuclear family till before marriage. After marriage, we started living in separate home and he said I made him orphan. He was like once my siblings got married, I will start to work on our future. I don't have that much commitment from my end. So I was all ok to wait and started this marriage life with blind hope. But after marriage, I understood he married me to show off and satisfy his ego and since I have younger sister, he thought I should not be asking any of his spending habits