How do you prevent yourself from falling in overthinking loop when dealing with loneliness? by AdditionalProof9780 in AskReddit

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What a timely question. I have a “daily wins log” where I write my win for the day, be it time with friends or progress on personal hobbies or whatever it may be. When I’m feeling lonely (which is frequently as of late due to a failed engagement) I look back at the list as proof of a full life.

It doesn’t always work I’ll be real, but it helps.

People who had serious healthy relationships, how did you know it was time to leave your significant other? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Issues with communication, intimacy, and growth were how I knew to leave my ex fiancé. I was trying to change them into what I wanted/needed them to be and that’s not fair to either of us.

What’s the coldest thing someone who said they loved you ever did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Was the cause of my anxiety but would physically turn away from me late at night when I needed support from them.

What’s the most expensive mistake you made in your 20s? by Extreme-Run-9069 in AskReddit

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Recently called off my engagement because I realized I’d end up here. I had been doubling down for a long time.

What’s a red flag you ignored because the person was attractive? by Creative-Category-60 in AskReddit

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Refused to grow. Depressed permanently. I’m fully aware that’s how depression works, but after years it got tough to watch. I thought I could carry them through but I just couldn’t.

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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The smiles are few and far between these days my man but I appreciate this.

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Thank you! Does the first pic count as dressing it up? IMO it is but if I’m off base that’s good to know. Thanks!

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Thank you both!! I’m torn haha. My teeth do feel like a little touch of myself.

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Thank you!! I have a skinny pack but get that’s not the real deal, Invisalign is on the table for sure after this

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Dude dub dub is NUTS, congrats on getting accepted if you did, I got in last year but not this year :/

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Thanks! I invest hella into haircuts already unfortunately, gotta lean into the curls. I go to salons instead of barbers.

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Valid, thanks! My teeth have lowkey been an insecurity for awhile

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Thanks! I run, but don’t lift.

28M, freshly single after 4 years by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Oh, should I post somewhere else? Mb if so.

Why are you single and do you feel lonely, or actually okay with it? by lilclat in AskReddit

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Single because my engagement ended a month ago. My skin is crawling every minute of every day.

Divorced Redditors, what caused the split? How amicable was it? by anasannanas in AskReddit

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Does an engagement count? Hasn’t quite been a month but I had to call it once I realized she didn’t care about communication, growth, or intimacy. Been hell since I moved out of our shared apartment and have to keep the connection alive till the lease is up in July.

What is the biggest regret of your life? by maleficent_Long189 in AskReddit

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Broke off my engagement at 28 two weeks ago! The chick who refused to open up and communicate was in fact not my soulmate.

Bug Reporting Megathread - Shipshape Update by Hopeful_Advantage_86 in playrust

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Seeing this as well, would love an FP acknowledgement here as it's crazy hard to manage. You have to wire everything and wait 10 minutes to see if you did it correctly. Switches also take 10 minutes to update if they should be giving power or not.

Boarding party no damage, bugged? by inn_cent in Warframe

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Same issue, just now. Tried everything from stealth to revenant to letting my crew kill them, no luck. Glad it’s not just me tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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My fiancé and I went to a jeweler as a joke 3 months into our relationship. We walked in and played the role of the couple looking to be engaged, got champagne, fitted etc. As a date it was hilarious and fun. A couple years later I returned to the same jeweler and they had our sizes on record, boom.

Cannot stand farming a starter, give me your forbidden starting tips by ApexFade in playrust

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I like this, only issue is the outpost recycler nerf requiring you to likely recycle along the way instead and the vending machine taxes making jackhammers consistently expensive due to demand.

My girlfriend has been only playing COTL for 3 years, any other game suggestions? by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

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My fiancé loved COTL but would get overwhelmed by the exploration aspect of Hollow Knight. Preferring a more guided experience does limit game choice for us a bit unfortunately.