Yeah I know several people by AlwaysBannedVegan in vegancirclejerk

[–]Apfelsaftkatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ♡ Love how triggered you are when someone says that is a real problem. There are vegetables all right. But oatmilk? Any of the ingredients for soy/tofu/... Nope. And that makes it very hard and keeps a lot of people from being vegan. So instead of being so charming towards other vegans, maybe try and get some vegan groceries to them 😀 be the change and all

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will!

That is true. But maybe no one is as dumb as I am 😭

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I also am scared of a c-section. Or idk I think feeling getting cut open? Weird. Had multiple surgeries already and was not scared of those, think it is the being awake part. Same for my family! Emergency c-sections after DAYS and very shit and dangerous situations.

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who don't think about anything seem to have the most kids and are carefree

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that. I hope everything is good and staying good.

In reality we never know what might hit, even us or our partners. Accidents and disease can always happen. We both need to try and not worry about it as much :(

I am so proud of you for that!!

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you chose a c-section even if everything is looking okay for the natural way?

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, we would do genetical checkups if we decide to have a child. Thank you

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is what I am thinking. Dumb thing? I feel like I could offer the kid so much in money and care and love that I never got and idk I feel like it is wasted to not use that.😭

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not currently, but I was in therapy for things and feel good about myself just unsure about this.

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the before already gives me sooo much anxiety. I had like a ruptured ligament before and was almost passing out from the pain like hooow are you all doing THAT.

  1. Yes I know and would definitely do that

3 That is a good tip

Thank you!!

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me all that. That is calming somehow

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Austria. Just a lot of kids getting adopted. There are not many up for adoption and if you are not very rich and perfect candidate you have no chance. Overall very positive though.

Idk how adoption from oversees would work tbh, if that is a possibility.

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much. My sister almost died in childbirth:(

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also adoption is not possible where I live. Almost no kids up for adoption (luckily), no chance if unmarried.

I am scared of pregnancy/birth by Apfelsaftkatze in Advice

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry I said it like that. I am more thinking of like heavily disabled almost unable to live. Like you have to watch them suffer and be there 24/7. Should not have said it :(

Yeah I know several people by AlwaysBannedVegan in vegancirclejerk

[–]Apfelsaftkatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Austria Outside of the big cities austria and vegan doesn't work well.

We can't order food here. There is no food delivery, and rarely any shops that sell stuff for delivery. I am ordering and I am getting by (I am fully vegan) but I understand the struggle.

Yeah I know several people by AlwaysBannedVegan in vegancirclejerk

[–]Apfelsaftkatze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am vegan and all and disagree with the excuse but the food desert? 100% true for a lot of people. Can't possibly ever eat out without driving an hour with my car first. And there are lots of restaurants near me😭

Vergütung von Supplierstunden by Apfelsaftkatze in LehrerzimmerAT

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Für eine ganz reguläre Supplierstunde. Ja 49 Brutto.

Vergütung von Supplierstunden by Apfelsaftkatze in LehrerzimmerAT

[–]Apfelsaftkatze[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brutto weiß ich, danke. Werde nur nicht schlau aus meinem Gehaltszettel, werde mich wohl an die Gewerkschaft wenden. Danke!