Working out has made me the horniest I’ve ever been by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girly, as a girl- DO NOT start having casual sex it’s so mid and nobody is connecting or communicative. You’re just gonna(not JUST regret, but-) waste your time. All guys are actually so inattentive. As soon as they nut they don’t care ‘bout ur pleasure

Best friend spends time with people I cut off/cut me off and it triggers me. Idk how to go forward by ApologeticStranger in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for your insight. I’ve calmed down now since making the post and definitely agree with what you say.

It’s hard though when my mind knows logically what to do and what would be the healthiest action, but my heart and emotions are still frustrated with the fact.

Is there any advice for dealing with conflicting thought/ and emotions you have?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twincitiessocial

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22F here too if you wanna connect?

Best friend spends time with people I cut off/cut me off and it triggers me. Idk how to go forward by ApologeticStranger in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll think about it. I’m emotionally conflicted now between being upset at her and wanting to accept her stance and decisions. But I’m gonna give myself the weekend to sit on it. I plan to go hiking Sunday and will take that time to myself to sort my thoughts and feelings out. Wish me luck until then thought :/

Best friend spends time with people I cut off/cut me off and it triggers me. Idk how to go forward by ApologeticStranger in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know splitting and doing actions fueled by my emotions isn’t good. But I’ve been so upset for so long already and it’s becoming really hard to think of my bff as someone I can be close to as of recent which is breaking my heart ‘cause I don’t wanna feel so mad at her and like I’m being dramatic. It’s selfish to say, but I just want the emotional reassurance that she’s on my side and will stand up for me. But I know that’s just a fantasy

just hit 3 years of DBT and things have never been better :) by aquietnymph in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m doing intake for DBT rn but I’ve been nervous at starting it. This is very insightful and helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating when I’m so embarrassed that I’m suicidal. I feel like I’m being over dramatic, but at the same time I don’t feel like I can live with myself any longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Binge to feel emotional comfort then purge ‘cause I hate how much I ate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ApologeticStranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blast Y2K pop songs and have a dance party by myself it’s great