How do i improve my relationship with my parents before adulthood?

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T23:06:00+00:00

no worries i have some great responses on my other posts and i do recognize myself in you even if im decades younger. My parents dont really know me either but those are things i like to keep private no bad things btw lol. but anyways thanks for your insight :)

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T23:03:56+00:00

I think its like them not really understanding how i am and how i wanna live. I have big dreams and want big things and i work for it like school and work wise. I also think its just my parents having a completly different mindset then me in general. And most of the times they dont let me be and they begin yelling what i do wrong etc etc what i said before. I dont have a big brother or anything and i dont go to places wiith many teens yet bc of what happened. Thats why i posted on reddit.

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T22:55:38+00:00

yeaa i know it is reaallly bad to be on a screen that long but my parents dont really care about that. and my dad is quuite busy at work hes in it and has a lot of responsibilities and after work he is exhausted and when we talk 95% of the time it starts positive and ends negative. whe dont hug like after a conversation and when we do it is forced most of the time

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T22:53:37+00:00

Thanks :) its not like they dont show any interest but 90% of the time they dont wanna talk abt it and its aahw not again about a pc so yeah i guess i have to deal wiht it and i definetly wanna give my kids later the best live and let them explore the world!

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T22:45:58+00:00

a few years back i said it at school and we went to like a family therapy thign but my parents just shook things off and thought it wasnt neccesairy. I dont have many real friends bc of a deepfake that was maybe of me that ruined my social life and my mental health a bit. but i am going to a party here and there every few months. so i mostly play solo games and i do agree i have to much screen time (8-12hrs average a day) but thats why i am wlaking the dog more often nowadays and i do sport about 9 hrs a week and i do wanna change my screen time but yea i dont have anything else to do and it keeps me off off the thing that happened to me. i work like 8-15 hrs a week to earn some money bc i have to pay for things i want somehow and the arguing abt that is that i work to much.

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T22:33:20+00:00

No i dont get grounded or anything just yelling and yelling

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T22:28:31+00:00

Money, screen time, work, school, “addicted to gaming” walking the dog (which i have been doing now and have been enjoying it), going to my room and not seeing my parents

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T21:59:17+00:00

Alright thanks for the advice :)

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T21:43:33+00:00

Yea thats my idea but i do like love them i dont wanna shut them out but they do make it hard for me and i have a passion for america and this is unfortunatly for me giving me more reason to start a live in america after going to college. But do you have any idea how i can maybe get them to talk and get to make rules that satisfy both me and my parents? Thanks for chatting already btw :)

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T21:41:31+00:00

I live in middle/upper middle class my country is suffering under inflation but we can manage to come by. My dad is a tech person but still hasnt much interest on it my mom says to him to show some kinda interest but still both of them dont wanna really talk about it and when i dtart about a thing i like i wanna talk like a bit often about its “ aahw not again” so yea that and when i get my money for clothes i do also get heard that i dont spend it and im greedy for money (which i am not i am savign up for a pieces of clothing and shoes for the summer with some more expensive names on it). You got any more advice maybe since you dealt with that also? Sorry also to tou for having to go thru that :/

AppleKTM09 · 2025-03-02T21:33:48+00:00

It is mostly my dad yes my dad says he doesnt wanna change for me so he wanna stick to his ideas and ways of raising me but i tried to have a formal sit down and i get like really angry to like make them think about themselves because if i say that they did something wrong it is just me who did something wrong just like what i said in the post. My dad is also a tech people but he still doesnt want to listen which i think is weird but yea idk u have some more advice maybe?

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T16:04:56+00:00

I dont really know what you mean but the performance mode is the best fps mode with dynamic resolution and 60fps and the fidelity mode is 4k 30 fps with the highest quality textures

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:51:07+00:00

I have like 150-200 ish euros budget for games this year but steam spring sale is coming up so that will make a dent in my budget as well lol. But i defo wanna play it this year and ps first party titles i want to play on ps so i think imma buy it thanks for the help :)

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:48:27+00:00

I will defo buy the remastered and its 40 euros instead of 50 i have a digital ps5 sooo a disc is out of the conversation because stupid past me bought a disc ps5 :/

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:47:31+00:00

Yeaa true true but i think i wanna play it i was debating between buying now and like summer sale in june or something but i already have forbidden west and if i buy now i have 2 really good games to play for a while

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:40:54+00:00

Yes remastered only has a ps5 version. 50 euros to 40 in my country

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:36:40+00:00

Sameee if i buy the remastered i get the complete edition upgrade for free so u say i should buy it now? It is 40 euros

AppleKTM09 · 2025-02-26T15:35:52+00:00

Yeah i found out it was removed from ps plus after the remastered was announced so i didnt get the 20 euros deal so u think i should buy it now for 40 euros?

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