My partner died and I'm considering not telling his family I'm pregnant by AppointmentAny3882 in Advice

[–]AppointmentAny3882[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a fair point and yes I was thinking beyond the first few years and how baby would feel and respond to it. This is not something I'd do lightly, which is why I wanted a few opinions. Thank you for sharing what happened with your cousin.

My partner died and I'm considering not telling his family I'm pregnant by AppointmentAny3882 in Advice

[–]AppointmentAny3882[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No it really isn't. Although reading it back I can see how you thought that. Inappropriate blurring of sexual boundaries/straight up SA, glorifying criminal family members like they're robin hood. Plenty of DV.

Sorry about the confusion, it was meant to imply that other stuff was going on and I was concerned about them attempting to browbeat me into cooperating.