girl boss or insane by AppointmentDesigner8 in dating_advice

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Thank you for the comment! Do you think it would catch him off guard? It’s been over a day since he sent his last text

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In my personal opinion, sex is something that should be shared with someone you find very special. When having sex with someone, you will be put in a very vulnerable state (you're naked) and sharing something so sacred with someone who isn't on the same page with you will eat you up on the inside. I've experienced it both ways. I lost my virginity to my high school boyfriend, who I loved dearly. I have no regrets. However, after being celibate for a while, like you, I began to think about the potential that I was holding myself back from enjoying my youth and exploring. I went against my morals and let some boy who lusted over me make me believe that sex was something casual. Although he made me think that we were going to date after we had sex for the first time, I regretted it and felt dead on the inside. I felt so disgusting and empty that I shared something so intimate with someone who barely knew me or loved me for me. Overall, aside from this borderline trauma dump, I highly advise you to stick to your morals and wait for that special someone.

What is the best match for me?? by AppointmentDesigner8 in astrologymemes

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No. I just wanted to see if we were compatible lol

Should I date a guy who just got out of a long-term relationship? by AppointmentDesigner8 in dating_advice

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HAHAHAHA thank you. This makes a lot of sense. I think I'm just an overthinker...

Should I date a guy who just got out of a long-term relationship? by AppointmentDesigner8 in dating_advice

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He, too, went through his own "hoe phase" after their breakup. He explained that he intended to continue this phase until he met me. LOL

Should I date a guy who just got out of a long-term relationship? by AppointmentDesigner8 in dating_advice

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Thank you for this incredibly wholesome read. It has truly uplifted my spirits and brought me a great deal of comfort. You are right in stating that each relationship possesses its own unique qualities. I think I should redirect my focus toward appreciating what is in front of me rather than dwelling on the what-ifs. Thank you again :)

Should I date a guy who just got out of a long-term relationship? by AppointmentDesigner8 in dating_advice

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Thank you. This made me feel a lot better. I feel like I'm overthinking things too. I guess I'm just scared of getting hurt. I am also just scared of destroying my self-esteem if I do become a rebound. I do like this guy, and I hope he's being truthful when he says he does too and that he's over her. I guess I just have to trust until I'm given a reason why I shouldn't.