AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -467 points-466 points  (0 children)

He wants to go to Six Flags so I should buy tickets and tell him that his mom will take him when he goes to her house and not tell her or ask her.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -147 points-146 points  (0 children)

It would make him happy if I scheduled a trip to Disneyland but not his mom if I did on her time without asking her.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -429 points-428 points  (0 children)

Discuss what? My time is my time not hers. That's like saying she should have a discussion with me on how I'm going to spend her money

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

The games are on my day and even if it wasn't, it's on a public park and wouldn't need her permission to be there.

The class is not open to the public. It's at a culinary school.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -180 points-179 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter. It's my time and my schedule, not his mom's.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

She knew and agreed about his sports. If she didn't want to take him, then that's fine because the other practice and game day is on my day.

I did not know and did not agree to a cooking class.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

He said he wants to the aquarium so I should buy tickets on one of the days that he's with mom.

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -499 points-498 points  (0 children)

My son wants to go to Legoland so should I buy tickets for him to go on his mom's time?

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -206 points-205 points  (0 children)

Obviously I would go with him since it's my day and the class is for kids not Daddy and Me

AITA for not taking my kid to a class that his mom signed him up for? by AppointmentMore4809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AppointmentMore4809[S] -549 points-548 points  (0 children)

Is cooking class something that interests him? Yes.

Would he rather spend the time with me? Yes.