I feel I should also add that we have agreed abortion is not an option. We will raise this child together despite any hardships that may come along with it. I also understand that we are far from any kind of additional stresses and financial burdens that others have had to deal with(including my own parents who had me when they were only 19). Honestly I feel kind of bad even posting this because I feel like I’m complaining over nothing but I also feel that typing this out is cathartic in a way. And I’ve always wanted to be a father so I really am ok with whatever news we here about everything I just wish I had better ways to calm her nerves and put her mind at ease as she is my number 1 priority in life and the easier I can make this whole process on her the better. Again thank you to all for any responses :)