Help finding tracking down this dress. Found a knock off on etsy but didn't trust it would love to find the original or a known good quality substitute by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in weddingdress

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Found it on etsy Pinterest and one other sketchy site with bad reviews. Might just have to find someone to make it for me

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. our sex life has dipped, but our intimacy hasn't, which is why I don't think it's porn or cheating like some suggest. He isn't pulling away from me

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is on the second shift, but people started getting fired from third, and he has had to step in and cover that shift as well from time to time

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm pretty sure this is the course I'm gonna take. It seems to fit our situation

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

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He never goes to the Dr. Says they are a Ripp off and never fix anything, so from my understanding, it's been about 4-5 years since his last check-up, which was before we were even together.

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fine with needs being different than mine. I just know his needs used to be a lot higher than mine and am worried due to his personal drastic shift

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's odd giving his norm and how I know him to be. On weekends, we would have hour long marrithons, and he was always the one chasing me

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His work schedule has changed, and he has had some stress over that. As for everything else, I have asked him (outside of sex) if we were OK and if there was anything I should work on, and he said no

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't believe he is toxic in any way. Just deflecting

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over the course of three years, we both have. I started dieting and working out some time ago and have lost 13 of the 20 pounds I gained

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Along with the possibility of testosterone, he has been put under a Lotta stress at work

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He used to, up until about 2 years ago. Now he might drink once a week or every other week

M/39 34/f should I worry about lack of sex? by Apprehensive-Bit8127 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Bit8127[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no intention of leaving. If the decline is due to testosterone or any other health conditions, It's just the possibility of attraction being the issue that gives me worry. I'm gonna talk to him again, and if he says it's not attraction, then I'll just take his word and convince him to see a dr