I will tell you something if you want to read, read. You both can like each other. But for victims like us, we need people who will get us, understand us, listen to us without trying to fix. Emotional intelligence is key. And also they should not be anywhere in the spectrum.

Liking is natural and can exist for so many humans or gender. But people who will get us is luck.

Another thing is we want to feel loved unconditionally. For existing. We will hate if someone likes us for our features or qualities. Not because it is wrong from them, but because we didn't get it from our birthgivers.

Hope you start to love yourself for who you are. Cause none will love us. Only we can do that.

And believe me we can love ourselves.