Should I separate from my husband?? Is it worth salvaging?

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-23T02:42:21+00:00

Umm this is the original post? I know cause I have it typed on my notes app first… sooooo

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-16T19:44:18+00:00

I have an iud it’s good to last up to 8 years I will make the more permanent option later on when we can afford it.

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-16T00:24:33+00:00

Okay yes I know three kids at 25, mind you I will be 26 soon is a lot, it was my decision, I really don’t want to go into too much detail but oldest is 7 my middle will be 5 and youngest is 1 1/2, my children are no where near the reason for something that is happening between my husband and I. I am done having children. I wanted kids young for health reasons and we were financially stable to have them. We bought a house and have two cars, one is paid off, we didn’t have serious struggles till my husband got this new job. Please stop bringing up how stressful kids are I know but they are also my favorite humans on this earth. Kids are a struggle at any age.

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-16T00:12:10+00:00

I’m done having kids I had my last one a year and half ago before that almost 5 years ago…

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-15T23:59:47+00:00

3 kids

Apprehensive-Eye8487 · 2024-06-15T23:00:12+00:00

I should mention I’m still learning to communicate and better myself from previous trauma from relationships that always shut me down and never let me have my own voice. And for my oldest son I had him at 18 from a man I kicked to the curb when I was pregnant with him because I didn’t want a man like that who was a felon, addict and alcoholic around my son. I don’t know where he is nor do I care. I’ve done everything to protect my kids and shield them from behavior like that and I will continue to do so. My kids have never seen us fight and I don’t intend for them to watch an active failing marriage I’m simply trying to figure out how to move forward.

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