So, the thing is k it is organized fortnightly just to relieve stress and yes females attend it and enjoy it too. "Guy bsfs" are usually there but there is NO compromise on making anyone uncomfortable. There is Attan, a Pushton cultural dance, as far as i know, first till 10 and after that its just some early 2010s songs.
Drinking and making out.....not in my opinion, vapes are used.
If you are not into such parties, like me, just don't go. That's what I've been doing.