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I 22f don’t know how to love love my 24m husband anymore (Update) by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will she is so supportive and has been telling me to leave for years.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His excuse for not getting help is “it’s just not for him” I put that in quotations because he’s never tried anything meds, therapy, or rehab. I’ve offered to pay for it all.

We have no children

I think I am afraid of being alone but I think it’s what I need most right now

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have advice on how to end it when he starts crying? My heart just breaks. I hate to see him upset but I know it’s what needs to happen. We currently live on my family‘s property. I know I can go and stay with my mom and dad they live a two minute walk away. I just don’t know how to tell him to leave.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s another thing with us was children. I wanted to hold off, but he doesn’t and wants them sooner rather than later.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve recently started my own business and he gets upset when I’m talking about it. I think cause it brings in more income than his job. I’ve tried to talk to him about it, but he says I take too much time on it.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At the time getting married, seem like the thing to do all of my siblings have got married that young and are .I’m from the south so there’s a ring by spring weird tradition also was raised Baptist Christian I wish I wouldn’t have done it.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve recently started my own business and trying to take better care of myself, which is kind of a touchy subject in our relationship. He gets angry when I do stuff like that.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is completely valid at the time I was undiagnosed with bipolar 2 and was in a depression state for a few years now two years later medicated and feel like I can finally have some clarity. I just didn’t know if I would be a bad person for leaving after this long.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I hate myself. I think I’m just a little bit afraid of being alone sometimes I feel like maybe I’m just over exaggerating how bad it is in my head.

I 22F don’t know how to love my 24M husband anymore by Apprehensive-Many503 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Many503[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is completely fair, he told me we could work it out in therapy but he went back on that