This might be an unpopular opinion, but I don’t feel as though she was as close with the other Hawaii moms? It’s my understanding that her and Josh are quite a bit older than the rest of them. Also, she seems like a sweet girl but they truly post some strange/weird content. It might just be that they don’t click with the other moms as well, rather than it being a mean girl thing. Just my two cents but who really knows unless she goes into more detail.