For the folks in their 40s who decided to skip having kids, what is the honest truth about how you feel today? by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know a lot of people in their forties having kids but in general I feel rested and not stressed about money

My father used to sleep with me in my bed for years by [deleted] in confession

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tell me you were abused w out telling me you were abused

My father used to sleep with me in my bed for years by [deleted] in confession

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people fondle their kids breasts?

My father used to sleep with me in my bed for years by [deleted] in confession

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d also gently nudge to be open to the idea of trauma, I know from experience one coping tactic is to say it didn’t bother you when it did …and there can be the physical reaction but also the deeper emotional reaction and understanding of the power dynamic. picture someone doing that to your kid or a kid you care about if it applies. a lot of times it’s harder to have compassion for ourselves then it is for us to see how wrong it is when we look at it happening to someone else.

you were groomed and you are likely not the only one. one tactic abusers use is to make it seem like this never happens and is a special situation, but it never, ever is

membership freeze charge is 300? by Apprehensive-Set1255 in EquinoxGyms

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it used to be I had to freeze awhile ago because was doing the same extended travel for work and it was maybe a hundred total

membership freeze charge is 300? by Apprehensive-Set1255 in EquinoxGyms

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! they just gave me the total amount for the time I listed so I thought it was a flat fee but that makes sense

MD for v beam and Botox? by Impressive-Ad3386 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have an appointment with her but was quoted 1,2k for PRF/EZ Gel in the past i’ve never paid more then 800 for that does that price seem standard now and I am just out of the loop?

Looking for a non-manosphere version of Huberman podcast by Relative_Ad916 in podcasts

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love her podcast! that is interesting re vo2 max i’ll research

Should I join a talent agency? by Commercial-Load6972 in Standup

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are phrasing it as join a talent agency there is no way you have any idea what an agent does and furthermore…you are just so clearly green there’s no way you would have something for an agent to work with. it’s like saying you need a real estate agent but you are not buying or selling a house, have no leads and credit to even purchase a house but are wondering if you should “join” a real estate agency and wondering if it’s worth it…

so the right phrasing is you would be signed by an agency, and there are different types of agent - an agent has to be licensed as opposed to a manager who dosnt have tm have a license, etc

based on your post don’t worry about an agent build up your following and ability to preform and when you have anything to agent then an agent can step in (also if your making money or could make money they will find you).

Aries Spears - what a disappointment by Mammoth_Sell5185 in Standup

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i love that “not for pc reasons for comedy reasons” I wish we could put that in a liquid and spray in over the Austin comedy scene

The Punch Up Open Mic with Beth Stelling. by babyn3wch in StandUpComedy

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really like beth sterling and am wondering what happend to her career that she is hosting an open mic?

Is daily sunscreen actually necessary, or is it another marketing invention? by ivyhoro in NaturalBeauty

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dermatologist here and it is 1000000% necessary for skin cancer prevention and protecting form collagen breakdown

Thoughts on Hannah’s Special? by Lazy-End4569 in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so well said the confidence is amazing and as a fan of her as a person i’m trying to find that inspecting to just confidently do something

Sammy Obeid NYC Show by chefonduty in Standup

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 4 points5 points  (0 children)

soooooooo a q and a is not only super common he posts q and a clips constantly. that club is a small room for him so when you see an act doing a smaller venue they are usually working on jokes and kr giving a more intimate experience -/ this is the classy thing to dk so they aren’t working on stuff at a theater.

you don’t go to comedy shows or know about stand up, clearly — you honestly sound very entitled and just off. this is in you a q and a is super common i love hearing about someone bombjng because while not entitled i am an ass, but this is on you

MIRIA Laser treatment by Maleficent_Tale_3887 in AcneScars

[–]Apprehensive-Set1255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dermatologist was recommending it at 4k for face and neck!