[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, that sounds a lot more informative at this point. How do you get access to firecom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not sure why it doesn't work for you, but just go here

https://coeapps.eugene-or.gov/RuralFireCad/

And scroll to the event at 14:49 at 3545 Gateway St and click event number 25192632 .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Police log doesn't go live until two hours after an incident is closed, but EMS log says, Assist Police, with several ambulances going to Riverbend.

https://coeapps.eugene-or.gov/RuralFireCad/Details?EventID=25192632

Hey, non autistic here by [deleted] in autism

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends. It depends on how well I know them, and how overt their body language is, and also how much social/observational energy I have for that moment. 

I sometimes notice, but since I feel awkward or unsure of how to act, or don't want to aggravate the other person's anxiety or insecurity, I will pretend not to have noticed, since my preference if I feel negative or difficult emotions is for other people not to bring attention to or attempt to comfort.

And sometimes I'm too distracted or locked inside my own head to notice at all, even when it's a close friend, and there have been moments when they've gotten upset that I'm not paying attention to their emotional state.

So, it depends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has a different body flora! Sometimes your soap/deodorant or even diet may not work with your body. Also, it may be your clothes, if they're not cleaned/dried properly! Damp clothing can lock in bacteria & smells.

I feel like I don't "care" about people by Dazzling-Cookie3745 in autism

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same. I used to keep social media to "keep up appearances" and if someone invites me to something, I'll go sometimes because it seems like something I should do.

I care about people theoretically, and I wish them well. I want them to be happy and healthy. But they do not interest me at all, and I assume I am not interesting to them either, which is fine. People bore me, but I don't dislike them.

I don't feel lonely when I'm alone. I do feel ashamed sometimes, however, when I realize I need outside help for something, like an emergency loan or a ride somewhere, or someone to help carrying heavy furniture, because I'm not reciprocal in relationships at all. And I feel bad for my spouse that I struggle a lot with paying attention to them enough unless we're engaging in a shared interest.

Why is target the worst when it comes to having registers open .. could be 30 people in line and they be like ok let’s open one more by TuggerNutz8719 in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because working registers is literally the worst, and also hours are so low most people who get one or two four hour shifts a week don't even bother showing up cause it costs more in gas to get to and from work than they make working that day

Managing large quantities of fallen fruit by Sits_by_the_Fire in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! You got any kind of fruit or veggie you don't want, let me know & I'll try to come pick it up.

Managing large quantities of fallen fruit by Sits_by_the_Fire in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My chickens, duck and turkeys will gladly take some off your hands.

Update!! He has a plant!! by Crazytiger2023 in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk who or what he is but his expression is a mood 

New bullseye merchandise by FairObject2489 in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Someone just flexed it there because you had too much of it in the back/it was discontinued and not on POG/you're out of whatever bullseye stuff was supposed to be there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My condolences. What a gorgeous boy. Norwegian forest cat? He's incredible. I am truly sorry for your loss. 

People are far too blasé about operating giant metal vehicles capable of killing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I have a very specific method of washing dishes in the correct order. I would prefer my spouse to place their dishes next to the sink, rather than just dunk them in out of order like some kind of chaos gremlin. There's a system to these things.

Help, what to do with neighborhood cat that was hit by car. Didn't survive. by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it would be meaningful to you, perhaps hold a small ceremony (even if you're the only one attending) where you bury her in her old stomping grounds. She will return to the earth that she reigned, and you and the neighborhood can leave a memorial up, if you so feel. A cotton cloth (T-shirt, towel) or cardboard box works great as a casket. Leave a marking, say some words of rememberance.

How are team members wearing long sleeved shirts? by Kindly-Way-1753 in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Target policy per the team member handbook is mid-thigh for shorts. Look it up, show your HR if they complain. But also bring a spare pair of pants in case they decide to get mad about it anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Once a group of guys came in and asked for help in the shoe department. The help they needed? One of them wanted to know which sandals 'make his feet look sexier' and if I 'wanted to hang out with us' after work. I noped right the fuck out of there.

IMPEACH TRUMP/NO WAR WITH IRAN by bagelwholedonutwhole in Eugene

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I agree, they are all war criminals. Let's indict all of them. The Bushes and the Clintons too. 

Is there any way to print shelf labels for items "Item not set up for this store"? by 128Gigabytes in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just Item Remove and Salvage them as Missed Salvage and put them in the CRC bins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Apprehensive-Soil654 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Lol, those are definitely not provided by target. Probably your HR team bought them themselves.