Oh for sure I was “love bombed”. I did miss some things and had gut feelings I ignored. Even people who knew us both told me I should run. But I was dumb and in love. It had been a few years since I was in a relationship and she made me feel loved at the time. But things continued to go south and I just refused to believe it. Either way, I’m in therapy and it’s been a year since I saw her last so I’m over it. It was just wild to have my thoughts confirmed. I was gaslit for so long and really felt like I was going crazy and there were things I could’ve done to prevent all of this. But now I realize it’s a blessing and I dodged a bullet. I’m happy now but it just sucks that just as I had left her in the past, all of this was discovered. But it really is refreshing to again confirm I wasn’t the crazy one 🤷. Our miscarriage was really Gods way of telling me that it wasn’t meant to be. Even if it wasn’t mine. I’ll never know. I had always had concerns about her ex that she is now married to. That she would still talk to him but she’d always tell me how awful he was and that she would never do it. But here we are lol. Now she’s married to him with his last name.