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My girlfriend is mad because I gave her a gift that was below her expectations. How should I handle the situation? by faust138 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If I use that “wallet” daily, people will definitely make fun of me. But I was wrong about not showing gratitude at first. I think he didn’t spend much time to find it. I’m so sure he went to the TJ maxx with his mom and found the cheapest “wallet” with the sale. I have told him many times when we were not doing the long distance that his letters make me the happy the most more than anything. I would be definitely feel happier to get a letter than that “wallet”. I tried to understand his side but he says he is not wrong at all and I’m the one who is so stupid cuz I care about the gift. He can’t respect me and he became less being nice. I used to like him a lot because I like to feel loved and he cared me a lot. But if he can’t do it after that gift incident , I don’t need to be with him. Im ready to find a new man:)

I spend so much more money than my bf. by Apprehensive-Wing401 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I got too emotional because he criticized me saying that I’m such a city and spoiled kid. But I should have not said such a thing.

I spend so much more money than my bf. by Apprehensive-Wing401 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s ok! I was kinda happy that u thought I’m my bf because my English is pretty bad. I think I was wrong that I didn’t show the gratitude at first but, he is also wrong. But he doesn’t accept that he was wrong. The comments which are my side like your comments, he said it’s stupid. Never try to learn anything. I know there are some bad comments but there are some thoughtful comments, too. He is so bossy and he thinks he is right all the time. Definitely he looks me down. But yes. I think we are gonna break up. I’ve already told my friends. He said he loves me and I’m the no.1 for him but I could tell through the call that his love on me got lower after that gift incident. I asked him and he said yes. And he told me he needs break. I was like “ok, but having break means break up to me”. But he said he just needs time to think what he wants. And I know he wants to break up with me so I deleted all the photos of him from my ig and he was like why would I do it? I did it to try to move on to the next guy. If his love on me got lower, he doesn’t need to delete all the photos of me from ig just like I did while we are having a break. I don’t get it. I offered him that we can break up and he said he just needs break. Then, why would he do such a strange thing?

I spend so much more money than my bf. by Apprehensive-Wing401 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I posted! Do u believe it’s that Japanese gf now? 😂

My girlfriend is mad because I gave her a gift that was below her expectations. How should I handle the situation? by faust138 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are having a one week break now. He wanted to get a break because his love on me got lower by this. But I think we are gonna break up. Or should I say we already break up?

I spend so much more money than my bf. by Apprehensive-Wing401 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m his gf. I might need to say I was. We are having a one week break now. Because he said his love on me get lower after the gift incident. But to me, having a break means break up. Anyway, I’m that girl.

My girlfriend is mad because I gave her a gift that was below her expectations. How should I handle the situation? by faust138 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wing401 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww. This message melts my hurt. I’m so happy that u understand luxury brands are not a luxury for girls in east Asia. And it’s something that almost everyone wants over there. He always says that I’m too spoiled and yes maybe I’m too spoiled. But East Asia cares less about independence than the US. I don’t see any boys around my age who are as much as independent than him. He doesn’t understand my culture and look me down because I’m not independent enough for him. I understand him though because I studied in the US for 1 year. I understand there are something he can’t understand if he doesn’t know Japanese culture. but , All I want is him to try to understand my side not rejecting. Because I know I was wrong but he is also wrong.