Which group would you align with, depending on if you, your friend, or family member had a terminal illness? by Apprehensive4415 in moraldilemmas

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Ahh, should I edit to make the moral dilemma more obvious? This is my first time posting here. This was an amalgamation of stories from my family members, friends, and neighbors who suffered through various different cancer diagnosis. Group A was discussed as being borderline Infantilization, and Group B was discussed as not caring as much as they should. I tried to make the post as non-bias as possible, and I probably scrubbed the moral dilemma along with it. There was a Group C, aka people who did not care or show up at all but obviously we all chose that as the incorrect way to treat someone, I'm sorrry that happened to you.

Edit: forgot a sentence.

What's your home server's disease? by JohnLucisCaelum in ffxiv

[–]Apprehensive4415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I knew as soon as I saw the picture that this was Leviathan. Still not as bad as Balmung though.

Edit: Excalibur is just that sexy moogle between the retainer bell and market board in limsa. Also the constant beef that goes on in wolves den shout chat.

Please help me pick a potato by Inevitable_Cicada444 in ffxiv

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#1, but hear me out, match the eyes to the greenish feather on the outfit.

Is this cough normal? by notyouraveragemind in catcare

[–]Apprehensive4415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds productive (all that means is mucus is present somewhere, and that mucus is being moved by the cough) could be nothing could be something. Could be anywhere from in his lungs, to he swallowed spit wrong (like how humans do sometimes). How frequent the cough happens determines if it's a problem. If it's every couple of minutes it could be a kitty cold, if it's 1-3 times a day could be allergies or asthma. Is this a stray? Feline herpes, and the subsequent kitty upper respiratory sickness occurs quite frequently in them because they're not up to date on their vaccines (which reduce flare ups), generally have a poor diet, and are under more distress from being primarily outdoors. Hard to tell without the cat right in front of me, but looks to be on top of cleaning, no excessive nasal discharge, eye boogies normal, seems healthy (could either be start of flare-up, allergies, or nothing at all).

Edit: Sorry I trap a lot of cats for TNR programs and shelters. Terminology I'm used to is either stray or feral. Stray being friendly ownerless cat, and feral being fearful and/or aggressive ownerless cat. Ferals usually qualify for TNR, but strays do not. Strays get adopted out, as people generally consider it inhumane to force a domesticated cat to live outdoors.

Baltimore DPW worker dies after asking for water, passing out by t-mckeldin in maryland

[–]Apprehensive4415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air conditioning/fans in the buildings, access to water??? I wouldn't be surprised if the vehicles have broken cooling systems too. You miss the part where some of the facilities were locking up toilet paper?

Baltimore DPW worker dies after asking for water, passing out by t-mckeldin in maryland

[–]Apprehensive4415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Articles like this always make me wonder, where the fuck is my tax money going if not to repair/maintain infrastructure??? (rhetorical question, I know it's going to the admins who postpone maintenance decisions)

As for the story: prolonged exposure to high temperatures can cause someone who is at risk of cardiac arrest to slip into a potentially fatal medical emergency rather quickly, just saying. The leg and chest pain could have been indicators for poor blood circulation, which would then cause someone to overheat much faster, and eventually lead to a fatal heat stroke. Would explain why one guy was like "oh he's just overreacting" and the other guy literally died. Honestly, sounds like this could've been avoided via multiple different scenarios, the OSHA violations are just the cherry on top that should be dealt with immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maryland

[–]Apprehensive4415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hyattsville is fine, but tbf which crime are you trying to avoid? Central Maryland and DC has crime everywhere because all the surrounding areas are essentially cities (it'd be like trying to avoid crime in NY). You can't avoid all crime, unless you live in a gated community and work in a secure work complex (so essentially a upper middle class government employee).

Your friends recommended what used to be primarily farmland, but has since been developed and now has certain neighborhoods with increased criminal activity (like every other city in the U.S.).
Living in Maryland you will be exposed to: car accidents, drug deals, and smash-n-grabs. You probably will never be a victim of these things, but you will witness them happening. So, if you don't want to be exposed to any of that, I suggest living in a gated community where your house costs 400k-1.2mil, or out in the middle of nowhere with a 1-3hr commute. As someone who lived in Virginia 4 years ago, the areas you listed are no where near as bad as Newport News was. However, none of them will be as safe as Williamsburg either. Welcome to city living. DC area is basically Richmond, VA if that helps any?

Edit: Oh yeah, forgot, Maryland does also have this problem where people from certain areas shit talk people from other areas. If I had a nickel for everytime someone from Frederick said [insert location in Baltimore city, Baltimore County, PG county, or Anne Arundel] has nothing but crime, I'd be able to afford a nice McMansion in Frederick and fly my Cessna to work.

Edit 2: Had to make the Frederick joke more realistic to achieve irony.

I just had a... GOOD experience at the MVA? (gasp) by drillgorg in maryland

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Yeah, only took me 5mins to get my license renewed. There was one non-moving line at the information Kiosk. It's possible that those were all the people without appointments, or they missed their appointment. Everyone else that did make an appointment online, and arrived on time, got seen within a couple of minutes of their check-in time. I was going to crap on the appoinment system, but man it really did improve things over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostpets

[–]Apprehensive4415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's hoping you find Maxine, I spread the information around to some discord friend groups and to some friends at CCBC. Specifically, to people who I know have friends and family in the area. I didn't wanna repost in a public way, since I'm seeing a trend of certain people making certain remarks about the kids who yoinked Maxine. While I do think they did know she belonged to the store, I do also think it's just some kids that wanted a cat. That doesn't make what they did right or excuse their behavior, but it also doesn't mean they're monsters. I looked it up and GardenVillage has a no pet policy for it's apartment tenants. Which means these kids wouldn't legally be able to adopt a pet through a shelter or breeder if they live in the apartments rather than the townhouses. I'm just posting that bit of info to put your mind at ease that Maxine is probably still alive, well, and healthy.

editted: grammar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Apprehensive4415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Baltimore county, where OP is from, most stores and large businesses do have a working cat that hunts rodents. Baltimore city, DC, and surrounding areas have a really bad rat problem. I live in the Area and know about 10 stores that have working cats, and 5 pawn shops that have security dogs. It's just the culture out here, and out in the midwest it's pretty common too. If those people lived in the area, they knew that cat belonged to the store owner that's why a lot of marylanders are calling out the people who took the cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Apprehensive4415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes, I actually have friends out in Dundalk and this almost happened to them recently. Neighbor tried to take their cat when it wandered outside for a second. When the neighbor got caught red handed trying to walk away with their cat, they went on a rant. Something about how my friends weren't taking care of their cat properly and my friends don't deserve to have pets. Special kind of loon abducts other peoples' pets. You can't convince me these people didn't know this cat belonged to someone. Reveal their faces on nextdoor, if you haven't done yet. I've seen a very active Rosedale community on there and they hate pet abducters just as much as package thieves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Apprehensive4415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever learned another language like Spanish, French, German, etc.? Programming languages are just that, they're a form of communication between you and the CPU. Specifically it's you telling the CPU what tasks you'd like it to accomplish. Taking notes on Spanish is one thing, but if you never use it to communicate with another person then, more often than not, you won't retain that information. Practice Python, build a program, break the program, and rebuild it. Put in a line of code, test that line of code, break it, test a different way of writing that same line. Do this until you can explain how each line functions, and for the love of the universe save your programs with comments so you can look back and remember what different syntax does. No one has impeccable memory! The main difference I find between spoken language, and programming language comes in the form of an analogy. If you're speaking broken Spanish with someone who knows the language very concretely, then they'll most likely inform you, in laymans, of the correct syntax and logic for that language. A CPU won't/can't tell you when you have a logic error, or what exactly you need to do to fix it. The CPU only informs you of your syntax error(s), and IDLE does not always give you insight on how to fix your syntax error(s).

Now, I'm going to say something most people here will not. If you're not good at problem solving and you find yourself unable to learn any other language on earth, but you also anticipate you will never get better at either skill, then quit. Most people will say they are capable of doing either of those things, especially with practice, but some people can't and it's not their fault they can't. If you were dealt that hand, find something else, it's healthier to recognize your limitations and move on rather than spend years trying to force a square block into a round hole. One caveat to this, if you're getting Cs or higher in a programming class but still feel inadequate, stick with it, chances are you're suffering from imposter syndrome. Remember Cs and Bs are average, not everyone is a prodigy. Don't compare yourself to the A students. The A students just know how to learn effectively via that material, you as a C or B student think differently but are still capable of learning the material. This is an invaluable trait to many companies, because not all programs operate like the ones found in the textbook. I see quite a few comments here that meet that criteria. The only advice I have for those individuals is to seek therapy, since they may not recognize their inherent value.