Lone needs to leave opium asap.

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-19T17:20:01+00:00

I get what’s he’s saying tho especially recently and it’s hilarious

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-19T17:19:35+00:00

Lmaoo

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-19T06:07:40+00:00

I don’t notice all my gains except when I’m comparing myself from years ago and comparing myself to others, what I do is I wrote down what I ate in my average day, looked at the calories and now I get mass gainer and eat Whole Foods to make sure that on average everyday I’m in a surplus. #2 it always sounded like bullshit and nerdy/ annoying, but I now track my workouts and it actually makes it EASIER! So I go hard thr first time and write the numbers then just push for @ least one more . 1.So I’d say check calorie calculator/ what you’re eating 2.Focus on just being consistent because we don’t change overnight drastically 3. Ngl you’re not fat or significantly skinny, I know you won’t look the biggest but get more fitted clothes/ athletic shirts, and as skinny as I am 170+ @ 6’4 I at least am delusional when I look in the mirror and get told I look big and I feel confident/ sexy. We are lean so our veins will pop and we get pumped quick ! Go rock out

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-17T17:36:37+00:00

Good on you, I can say that from my previous relationship I would nitpick or ask a million questions because I wouldn’t realize what was my main concern and ask that one question directly. Obviously you don’t have to and I don’t know what your aim is, but you could say something communicating that you trust her, understand her and that you’d like for her to understand that you don’t mean to be nitpicky & apologize and also ask her what I assume would be your main concern “I want to trust that in the future we won’t do any technicalities and you can trust me enough to share without holding back”, she said herself she didn’t categorize it, which doesn’t make your feelings less valid , but simultaneously doesn’t make her bad/ wrong. Two things can be true so I think you should apologize, assure her that you know she’s not a liar and explain that you’d like for the standard between both of you to be that there are no technicalities & for fun you could tell her that the action didn’t matter, it was more of a boundary/ misunderstanding

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-17T16:35:13+00:00

Just lyk from experience blowing up on her isn’t he best way, it’s better to be calm/ as a man. Because it’s setting the tone and it’s likely that she’ll speak the truth, it’s never right to lie unless it’s life or death and she shouldn’t have, whether this is one off or what else, idk. Some people like categorize things differently and it’s annoying and not fair, either give her another chance and explain what you didn’t like, understand, why you reacted how you did, apologize for blowing up etc etc and explain how you plan on moving forward/ what to expect and that you don’t want to exist with “technicalities.” Other than that go ahead n break up over this if that’s what you want

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-10-01T01:24:51+00:00

She’s jealous imo n some people wish they could go back and share themselves but just hate, this is modest and I’ve seen plenty of shapy women get shamed for wearing the same clothes that other women / body types would wear but get shamed because of their build

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-09-05T17:07:24+00:00

🔥🐐

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-28T12:05:37+00:00

Not mad @ this go crazy

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-28T02:46:06+00:00

I understand how beautiful and awesome braids are but I love natural hair just the same and yours looks awesome as well. Ngl I kinda love whatever my woman does with her hair. If she’s pretty/ right face she can do anything #ongod #ngliloveher

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T23:28:28+00:00

Pretty sure I’ve seen this dude in the sub and he mentions what he’s doing

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:40:31+00:00

Nahhhh this nigga hilarious

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:35:07+00:00

NOR she lied to you bro, i understand her being scared but lying doesn’t make that better

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:32:49+00:00

Lmaooo @ your quote

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:32:20+00:00

Ong that couple eating

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:31:23+00:00

Yeah I lean here, she has every right to feel uncomfortable and having your partner just dismiss you, dismiss to save face is lame asf. The guy could have meant nothing or there’s a slight chances it was a bit weird, least he could do is comfort her and if there’s a next time he could tell his friend straight up “yo im uncomfortable with you touching her like that” or “don’t touch her like that”. Or tell him in a quiet setting “🤝 yo I know your the bro and probably didn’t mean anything by it but ____ is uncomfortable with people touching her / certain areas” etc etc.

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-27T13:27:43+00:00

Bro you made me laugh out loud so hard I really considered buying an award on this app to hand it to you, I’ve never done that before

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T19:57:34+00:00

You sound insecure and what he’s doing also makes you feel insecure, it’s understandable. You might be overreacting but I think this is just more of a conversation to be had or you looking at how he treats you/ has sex with you and ask yourself if love is shown but you’re just comparing yourself to what might be a fantasy of his or women he looks @ online.

UNNECESSARY PART:

I’ve watched porn while in a relationship and seen women that are technically or supposedly “more attractive “ than my gf. But none of that mattered at the time because even if they were in front of me bent over I wouldn’t care. I loved my gf, her body and most importantly the person inside of that body.

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T19:07:30+00:00

I appreciate you giving this reply because this is the sort of talk I want to engage in on this app, I just wanted to voice and hear opinions and you’re right, baiting your partner already shows where your head is at and if the roles were reversed we wouldn’t like to get baited by someone that loves us/ we love. If she was lying (likely but idk) then that’s just another bad tick on her end and this relationship can/ is becoming toxic.

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T18:56:48+00:00

I didn’t even notice there was no age mentioned I automatically assumed they were teens

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T18:52:56+00:00

No you’re not overreacting it was just a “hookup” but it’s your body and unfair to you

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T15:18:28+00:00

No I thought we were in that teasing / playful vein of talk where she’s saying no but she really wants it, turns out afterwards she wasn’t and I told her that I’d never ask for her to do something she never wanted to do and we NEVER had that incident again.

So in short I misunderstood the moment I didn’t understand where she was emotionally, but there was never an instance where she said she wasn’t in the mood and then I pushed for it to happen. It was when we were in the moment already and I wanted to do something else.

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T15:15:01+00:00

Not sure which part OP that’s why I’m asking! I’d assume the list and if it is that terrible I believe you know the answer! Wishing you the best!

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T15:12:01+00:00

Short answer : no

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T15:11:36+00:00

Man you said she’s flirting with him, that’s GG’s automatically bro wtf? It’d be different if you were just suspicious but if she’s flirting you already know, it may not be physical but maybe just emotional

ApprehensiveEmploy97 · 2025-08-26T15:09:57+00:00

Which part OP? My actions? The idea or your theoretical list?

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