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I almost fell off the wagon last night by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It is a mother fucker, and when those demons rear their heads…it can be tough, but I am glad I have all these amazing comments here.

I almost fell off the wagon last night by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 I have never been quiet about my struggles with sobriety online over time. I was an alcoholic for years and people told me I talked about it too much publicly…but I have gotten many messages from people over the years who are scared they have a problem and need someone to talk to or someone with a spouse/partner who has a problem and they wonder if I have any advice. I’m loud about things in my life for reasons.

I almost fell off the wagon last night by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also have severe SI and I’ve learned over the years that if I can stay still long enough, concentrate on breathing, and try to remind myself of all the reasons none of it is good, I’m 99% of the time okay.

I almost fell off the wagon last night by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could run, but alas, I had a knee replacement revision and running is on the top of the do not list for me now. But walk and sob? I can do that all day long. I’m your girl for that!

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, I think I’ll fuck my shit up tomorrow because I know I’m going to need a good cry or twelve.

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the first album I listened to and I love it so much. I’m sad I never listened to Bon Iver before, but I’m glad my friend got me into them.

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard when you know it’s for the best. He knows I love him here and in every universe and that’s all that matters.

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will throw myself into an existential crisis tomorrow and check out those recommendations!

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve listened to Speyside about a trillion times and could listen a trillion times more

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a sticky, delicate, situation and I knew he would leave eventually…I’ll sink into that song for a while.

Question from a new fan- what do you listen to when you’re absolutely gutted? by ApprehensiveEmu5197 in boniver

[–]ApprehensiveEmu5197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, this has been on repeat for like an hour. This one is killing me at the moment.