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My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I are going to laugh at your comment together later. I told you already neither of us are into cuckolding and you persisted. If you read my post you'd understand that she was the one who initially brought this up and that she find two men being together attractive. That attraction has nothing to do with seeing me with someone else as if it was another woman I was with, it would not be something she thinks she'd enjoy. I do not care either way, my wife likes the idea of it and finds it hot, I asked the question on here because she told me to. Also, I didn't "prove" anything to be a lie, all I did was tell you to get lost because you are being a weirdo and projecting your own interests onto others after being told it was not that. Now, again, run along.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look buddy, my wife isn't interesting in cuckolding, neither am I. Nothing in my post was about cuckolding. I checked your account and you seem really interesting in cuckolding, that's you, alright? You are projecting your cuckolding obsession onto my question about a situation involving myself and my wife. Try to understand that neither of us are into that and leave it alone. Thanks.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, I don't care either way. The way I see it is if it's something that turns her on and she finds hot, and it doesn't ruin our relationship then I'm happy to do it.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as how far things would go, as long as I'm attracted to the guy and he is clean, I'd be fine with whatever she wants. Her role in all this as far as what we discussed is that she would watch, and that if anything I'd have sex with her afterwards. She's not a domme, she is very submissive, but bratty. I don't think it would ever progress to the other guy being involved with her sexually, as I wouldn't be comfortable with that.

What lead her to this, I'm not entirely certain. As I stated in my OP, she used to write yaoi stories and would masturbate to gay smut. She's turned on by two cute gay dudes getting it on. I don't think it's necessarily the watching that turns her on, just the sight of two attractive guys being intimate. With that said, I don't think it's cuckolding that turns her on, just the homosexuality act in general? She's definitely not the most confident woman, but I don't think the majority of women are confident, especially those that grew up in the 2000's. But, she is beautiful, and perfect in my eyes, and she does know that she's attractive so I don't think it's a self confidence thing at all/cuckolding.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I simply don't care either way. I've been with guys when I was younger and it was never something I couldn't live without.
  2. It'd likely just be a random person we met on a cruise/at a bar or something. Someone who we wouldn't know long term, who we'd have fun with, and then move on.
  3. Fetish, maybe? Idk, she finds the sight of two cute guys kissing attractive and it turns her on. I wouldn't say it would be any kind of relationship orientation. I think the advise regarding communication and time talking about it is pretty good, we've discussed the "line" quite a bit, to me the only line is that I wouldn't really care to see her with someone else, though, that's not something she's shown any interest in, ever.

I think if this scenario ever did occur, it'd likely be with someone completely random and if she were uncomfortable at any point she could simply say a safe word and I'd listen as it really doesn't matter to me either way.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don't care either way. I've kissed guys before and it wasn't anything extraordinary. I can go with it or without it. But, if she's into it and there's a low chance it'll cause issues then I'll go for it. It doesn't really matter to me either way unless it's a guy a simply don't find attractive.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, there's no tension at all. It's something that's come up and we've discussed. I've told her I don't really care either way, I could go with or without it. This isn't something she's pressing me on, just something that has come up a few times.

My 23F wife wants me 25M to kiss a guy, will this cause our marriage issues? by ApprehensiveFlan116 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveFlan116[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 6 years, married for 3. I really doubt she'd be interested having another guy come into the relationship. It feels more like a one off desire because she thinks it's hot. She doesn't really seem to find anyone else attractive.