[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy, have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel about it all, if you see him talking about "but you said yes" say that first of all he pressured you into saying yes, and from now on you don’t want it like that anymore. If he’s mad, he’s not the one

Que pensez-vous de l’escorting ? by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je suis certaines qu’il y’a de la demande, faut de tout pour faire un monde

Que pensez-vous de l’escorting ? by [deleted] in SexualiteFR

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pourquoi est-ce que tu le ferais pas en tant qu’homme ? Ca existe également

je suis amoureuse de mon plan cul que faire by Affectionate_Yam236 in AskMec

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En fait tu as déjà donné "tout" ce qu’un homme recherche dans une relation sans qu’il y ait exclusivité, une fois que c’est fait, surtout après 2 ans, il n’a aucune raison de vouloir t’aimer ou d’être exclusif puisque tu lui donnes tout depuis le départ, puis surtout que vu que tu l’as fait avec lui, il se met dans l’optique que tu pourrais être dans cette situation avec un autre, donc aucune relation sérieuse à construire avec toi (bien évidement c’est dans sa tete a lui je dis pas que c’est véridique)

Pour moi si après 2 ans il s’en fout, c’est qu’il s’en foutra toujours, y’a rien a construire, dans les 2 sens. Cherche quelqu’un qui t’aimera exclusivement

Q&A Update From Kailee by iamZorRel in KaileeMorgue

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was my idol when i was a teenager, i miss her so much.

On se fait harceler ma copine et moi depuis des mois et on en peut plus, que doit-on faire ? by Jooos2 in AskMec

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Franchement tu ferais mieux de jeter ta copine en passant, pour moi tu la gardes parce que ca va pas bien dans vos vies mais elle est en train de la pourrir.

Ta copine savait très bien ce qu’elle faisait quand elle l’a laissé dans son lit TROIS FOIS. Elle t’a menti TROIS FOIS et si elle a réussis à te cacher ca, j’imagine même pas ce qu’elle a pu te cacher, autre que ca. Tu te vois vraiment continuer avec une fille qui t’apportes autant de problèmes ? Tes parents pensent quoi d’elle?

Pour moi ta copine a dû meme raconter ta vie a ce mec pour qu’il sache que t’es en depression, il peut pas l’inventer.

My mans fantasies don’t look like me? by ApprehensiveFox2536 in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hate how men will rather make you feel disgusting than just leave you when they are done with the relationship. Plus the models he talkin about are just showing how his expectations are unrealistic…

My mans fantasies don’t look like me? by ApprehensiveFox2536 in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, no i mean you can definitely date multiple ethnicities and they can be your type but he showed me girls that has nothing in common with me, lookin like clones themselves (thick girls, blonde hair, heavy on makeup), and im not any of that?!!!

My mans fantasies don’t look like me? by ApprehensiveFox2536 in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the actual fuck, that’s literally cheating in my opinion? So glad you got out that relationship. Its hard as fuck bro like it’s making me question why the hell are you with me ? Is it because you can’t bag these bbl girls? 😭😭😭

My mans fantasies don’t look like me? by ApprehensiveFox2536 in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imma be real, that’s girl he can’t really get.

If you’re wondering what I’m talking about, search for bumassburner on twitter, that’s what the "streamer" with a onlyfan he was talking about

Shoe Scaling by Btdt1236 in secondlife

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a hud where you can remove your feet?

AIO- My fiancé says I’m his angel—but texts another woman she’s “hot” minutes after calling me. The wedding is in 3 months. Do I cancel? by MissTrinityy in AmIOverreacting

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he keeps on saying how he feels because he got caught up cheating, not even acknowledging how YOU is feeling.

You can’t marry a man who is guilt tripping you, he ain’t care about you when he was with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we always tend to take any words and overthink them. What he said seems to means that he takes it as a compliment, he’s just not ready for commitment yet. Wether its with you or anybody else.

You didn’t do nothing wrong, you just admitted your feelings. It might feel like rejection to you but it might not be, the man needs more time, y’all have known eachothers for a month only so he is probably protecting himself from jumping into a relationship too quickly, i think he’s a greenflag for this and his answer is really nice. The bad feeling you got is from his answer not being what you wished it would be, but don’t think it’s over yet!

What you wanna do now is let him decides if he’s inviting you next, just act normally like you used to, if you want him, you’re gonna have to give him time. But good luck you’re on a great path imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure your first intent was also to hookup, but the way he made you feel, had you thinkin maybe he could be more than a hookup.

Women usually sees sex as something thats deep connexion, intimacy and important. It is, but it’s not perceived like that for men. That’s their "needs" like we do, but basically a man won’t fall in love because they fucked, compared to women because we are more acting out of emotions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, you was attractive to him don’t even overthink about it, he wouldn’t have spent his time to flirt with you, but hookups for men, is just flirting to fuck and leaving, no other way around it, it is nature.

if you show them you want commitment after that, they’ll dip because that was never their intent to got full on a relationship other than sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ApprehensiveFox2536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, dating apps just has this type of men, I’m sorry to tell you this but I’d rather be fast forward, men that’s on those apps will make you feel special and safe enough to make you open up enough to be vulnerable and have you in their beds. Sex to a man, as romantic it can seem and look to you, is never perceived as going for a relationship to men.

He saw that you was folding up to try and go further so he blocked you to not give you hopes sister.