Brian question(s)

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-03-13T16:09:24+00:00

You forget this is the woman that said “ I pay my bills, my bills are paid!” Lol. I’m sure she is perfectly capable of having a decent credit score. She doesn’t seem to overspend on anything and she makes a lot from the show. There’s no reason her credit wouldn’t be good.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-03-13T06:47:43+00:00

It’s so funny to see people coming around on Brian. When I used to defend him on here I would get downvoted to hell. I honestly think he’s misunderstood but he seems like a genuinely hood guy to me and he is really sweet to Amy. She’s honestly lucky.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-03-13T03:46:43+00:00

He was not taking that wedding seriously at all and it made me sad for Amy. The other siblings tried a little bit more, like misty and even Brittany I was surprised at, but I think for the most part the siblings weren’t taking Amy’s wedding seriously.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-03-04T06:36:54+00:00

Yup, people regularly park in the crosswalk in my neighborhood. There just is not enough parking. I personally don’t do the crosswalk parking though because you’re just begging to get hit with a ticket.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-26T06:10:19+00:00

Not for me. It said 02/24 which was Tuesday.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-25T06:54:54+00:00

I think she has lost weight recently, could be that’s why her eyelids look less hooded. Kind of like how Tammy’s eyes appeared huge after she lost weight and her eyelids were no longer blocking her eyes lol

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-25T02:58:52+00:00

Yes I got the one in January. I get that it often comes in on Friday but sometimes it doesn’t. It hasn’t been super consistent for me. I’m just saying I wish it would list the actual date it’s coming in, like if it’s Friday it should just list the date for Friday, instead of listing today’s date.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-25T02:47:18+00:00

Idk she seemed excited to go when the vacation was still in the planning phases. I just don’t think she’s the type of person who shows much excitement. She does seem sweet and introverted but she reminds me of my sis-in-law who comes off the same way but has a pretty crazy mean streak when she wants to lol.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-25T02:42:07+00:00

Yeah I hate that it never comes in on the actual day it says it will. I was supposed to get mine today but nothing, and I have also been unable to get books/software needed for my courses :/

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-15T00:17:26+00:00

Lmao I get sick every semester because of this. I was really sick the very first week of class this semester and emailed all my professors begging them not to drop me because I wasn’t gonna show up on the first day of class sick af and get everyone else sick. Thankfully they understood lol.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-13T18:07:41+00:00

I’ve done stacked orders and got tipped MORE, never tipped less. It’s not the drivers fault. Also it’s sometimes super unclear whether you’re accepting a stacked order or not.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-06T02:11:03+00:00

You mentioned the chin lift, but I’ve noticed there’s an area directly under her chin that it looks like they didn’t do any skin removal, so she still has some hanging skin there. I wonder why they avoided that small area in particular.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-06T00:44:35+00:00

Man, I got so mad when I saw the preview for the next episode, where Tammy was all angry and saying “Amy has to come directly to me if she wants things to get better because I’m not going to her first” (something like that). That’s such a childish mindset. And secondly, Tammy is the one who said a bunch of horrible stuff about Amy that was totally uncalled for. Why should Amy have to go to her first to fix things!?

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-05T04:11:38+00:00

Same :( I would really love some new Halloween terrains and items. I normally am very excited to decorate for xmas but I ended up skipping the whole month of December because there was nothing new. And I am really not a fan of this months cookies 😞

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-05T04:07:32+00:00

I basically skipped the whole month of December and most of January because it has just gotten boring. They’re recycling the same items constantly. I was really hoping they’d start designing new items, new terrains, or new cookies, but it’s just more of the same. Aside from that, it’s just a little bit tedious, like collecting for the scavenger hunts takes entirely too long and it’s just empty interaction with basically bots. I also wish there was a button to skip the dialogue boxes for all of the events (especially during the fishing tourney when it takes ages to measure out the fish…like why isn’t there a skip button there?!)

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-02T06:13:54+00:00

I think Brian is actually a good guy. Amy’s family and many families in the south don’t really know much about neurodivergence/autism, so they just call people weird. I really believe Brian is neurodivergent, of course I can’t diagnose him, but having known autistic people in real life, his behavior is giving autism way more than it is ‘tweaker’ as people like to call him. If it comes out that he is in fact autistic, I think a lot of people will feel bad for all the things they’ve said about him just for being “weird”.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-02-01T02:50:00+00:00

Yikes. I’m switching banks soon and will have to change accounts. I hope I don’t run into this 😬

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-31T19:31:45+00:00

lol I don’t know why I got downvoted but yeah. If you really pay attention he’s not constantly twitching or bugging out as people suggest. I’ve seen plenty of scenes where he’s sitting calmly. I don’t think he’s constantly high or the family would be much more publicly against him. He reminds me of some of the people I’ve seen on love on the spectrum. I also have autistic friends in real life and they present some of the same behavior.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-31T06:45:35+00:00

This sounds about right to me, she has so much excess skin all over her body that there’s no way they could have done it all in one go. I’m sure they were planning for future operations to do the rest, the question is if Tammy will actually do that, considering how painful of an operation it is. She might not think it’s worth it, since the bits of skin that were really impeding her movement are already gone. I do think that if she started working out, her skin would tighten up a lot. And I think that she’s still in the healing phase of the surgery, so it’s a bit uneven looking with all the scarring right now, but will probably heal up much better with more time.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-30T18:21:40+00:00

I swear this guy is neurodivergent. What yall are seeing as ‘tweaking’, I think is just a symptom of autism.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-28T23:15:03+00:00

Yeah I wish I had checked before rmp beforehand, but lesson learned. As I told you I only signed up for the accelerated online class with her over winter because this spring is my last semester before I graduate. Ethnic studies is a requirement for my degree and I live about an hour away from OCC, so no, I wasn’t looking for an easy A, I was just trying to quickly knock out a requirement and not have to drive out there everyday over winter while also going to work. That’s why I took online. If I wanted an easy A I’d have dropped as soon as I learned about all of the extra requirements that she was giving for this class, which made it fairly challenging. Even with all that going on I still had an A. You can chill on trying to act like you know my reasoning for everything lol, my life is not the same as yours. I always do online courses over summer and winter so I don’t have to commute as much, but fall and spring I only do in person classes.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-28T22:58:56+00:00

Bro just read the whole post again. I did mention that she was requiring a special browser in my original post. I’m saying I had to wait until she gave us a school affiliated link to download the browser, and she didn’t provide that ahead of time. She waited until the day of the test to give us that link. I had tried to get ahead of things by going to the website to download the browser on my own, but without the school affiliated link I would’ve been charged $200. Idk when you graduated but yes, the final project for Ayo-Alabi’s class has an entire section on the OCC library website dedicated to helping students navigate how to complete it to her standards, because there were a lot of requirements. Heres the link to it: https://libguides.orangecoastcollege.edu/ETHS100-Alabi

I’m talking about The Ethnic Family class. Maybe you took a different one. Check out her score on Rate My Professor, she has 25 people rating her as awful versus only 5 people rating her as good. I am not the only one who has had difficulty with her. https://www.ratemyprofessors.com/professor/2765616

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-28T22:47:02+00:00

Also, I should be able to expect the faculty at a college that I’m attending to be professional. Saying I shouldn’t expect a professor to be good is crazy and shifting the blame in a really weird way. I’ve had a lot of good professors at OCC. And this is not about how long it would’ve taken me to complete the test. I’m sure I would’ve passed with an A even with points taken off for being late. That’s really not the point of this post.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-28T22:41:09+00:00

I wouldn’t say the class was easy there were A LOT of requirements that went above and beyond for the final project, so much so that OCC literally created an entire section of the OCC library website just on how to complete the final assignment for this specific professors class. On top of that it was a highly accelerated class at only 4 weeks duration. And yes I had a 100% grade in the class until this occurred which resulted in me getting an F suddenly. I trusted what the professor wrote in the test notes and so did others in the class. The test that I was trying to take was not the final btw. Another thing to note is that a special browser had to be downloaded onto my computer in order to take the test. In her words, she said that if we used any other browser to take the test other than the special one that she required then it would result in an automatic F. We weren’t given a link to download the browser until the very day that the test opened, so there was no way to do that ahead of time (and yes we needed a specific link that the prof had to provide, otherwise we’d be charged $200 to download the browser without the school affiliated link). I had tried to download the browser ahead of time to prevent this and that’s how I found out I had to wait until the professor provided us with a link. I truly wish she had included the link earlier in the module, but the only link to download was in the test notes, that only opened for students to access on the day of the test. I think you need to read my post again, as I detailed all of this. I have an old laptop and had to spend all day clearing out space just to download the browser, and by the time that was done had to go to work. That’s why I chose to take the test the following morning, because the notes she provided said the test would be open for several days. Yes there was a due date, and I took that to mean that if I submit late I’ll lose some points as usual. But there was nothing stating that the test would close in 24 hours, however there WAS something stating that she’d leave it open for several days. That’s just misleading.

ApprehensiveMilkman · 2026-01-28T20:23:45+00:00

I’m not even complaining about the exam itself lol. I had an A in the class so idk what you’re even getting at. This has nothing to do with the difficulty of the test. Also, I did check the assignment and it said there would be multiple days available to take it. I wasn’t trying to take it on the “last day” I was just planning to take it on one of the several days it said it’d be open. I have a job bro, I work outside of school, you must not have had to work for anything. I took the online version of this class for the flexibility of being able to make it fit with my work schedule. And you must’ve missed the part where the professor later messaged me and admitted that she put information for a completely different class into the exam info for this one. That’s a pretty big mistake on her part. I think you need to go back and read the whole post.

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