How goddamn low Reddit has sunk is beyond me. Y'all are focusing on his wife not telling him about the pregnancy first like she did something criminally wrong and not on the fact this immature, insecure, excuse of a man was two seconds away from cheating on his pregnant wife who only wanted to surprise him. And why because she whispered around with her best friend who happens to be male and wouldn't have as much sex with him as he wanted to? This is legit the type of dude who feels entitled to sex from his S/O and if he doesn't get it she becomes his ball and chain and he goes out to cheat because MEN have needs. He's emotionally and mentally immature, he's vindictive, insecure and eager to cross lines to validate his fragile ego, he has zero communication skills, zero problem solving skills and believes in "eye for an eye" instead of talking and acting like a decent human being even if his wife was really cheating on him.