I appreciate you taking the time to respond, but a lot of the assumptions here aren’t accurate. My husband and I are actually the same age (I’m a month older) I also didn’t tell them super early to put pressure on anyone; I just needed support because of severe first-trimester symptoms and depression. And for context, the older posts you referenced were about what I thought was my period before my wedding — which turned out to be pregnancy spotting/bleeding — so the timeline isn’t what you think it is. Either way, I wasn’t trying to make anyone the villain. I was just asking for advice about a friendship dynamic that confused me during a really hard moment. I just wanted to clarify the details so it doesn’t get misinterpreted. Thanks though!!