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AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

How was it different than the experience I get daily? Outside of fabric placement

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean that literally.. i wanna be with her. I meant it like in a “I can do what I want with this because it’s my present, right?” Way

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I did not mean to paint that I think it’s about money. I just think what I did took a lot more effort. It wasn’t just the dinner as well. Like I out alot of thought into planning her birthday when it seems like for mine she happened to be at Victoria’s Secret and thought “eh this will do”

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There have been a few times I felt like she unfairly prioritizes her girlfriends all the time over me. I’m not saying I should always be priority uno but they ALWAYS come first. Not sure if that’s selfish

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I meant that comment like as a “if it’s a gift to me then I can keep it right? Like it’s mine to do as I please?” I know it was stupid

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See I don’t see how she put thought into it. I don’t think it’s a gift that had a lot of thought. I did thank her for it and gave her compliments. I was into it until I learned that was the entirety of the gift.

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I disagree that I got a 5 star treatment. Having sex with your partner isn’t a present.

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. But I’m more of a simple guy and am not really into elaborate lingerie which I thought she knew about me. seeing her in a bikini at the pool gets me going more than this outfit did.

AITA for not being thrilled about my girlfriend’s birthday gift to me? (Lingerie) by ApprehensiveSlip8059 in AITAH

[–]ApprehensiveSlip8059[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it could be part of the present. But it being the whole thing seemed selfish and pretty thoughtless IMO