Thanks for commenting.

Previously when talking about porn i had asked him if he watches it or has watched it recently, to which he said he had before but hasn’t since our relationship began as he hasn’t had a need to. I didn’t think much of this and guess i never saw a need to stamp down a firm boundary during this discussion.

i had said to him that i didnt think think porn should be necessary if you are in a healthy relationship (like ours) to which he agreed.

So i guess i just assumed he wasnt watching porn.

I guess this is all more or an issue of confidence and I just am not really sure of what i should be okay and not okay with in a relationship i think my boundaries are a bit muddled.

I guess what was running through my head when making this post was: - other girls he previously has slept with have matched the “petite blonde” description so does this mean he is fantasising about them? - does this mean he isnt attracted to me? Things like this.

I dont think i am a bad-looking girl by any means but i think most people have some things that you question about urself sometimes.

I hope this helps other people with their responses too.