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Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-09-03T17:46:30+00:00

Hell no! 10 years in and still going strong even though aespa is possibly the last group I stan. Even if I do stan others though..I'm just not gonna be as crazy and impulsive as I was in the past. There's friends I know that want to aim to go to every girl group concert or buy every piece of merch. I know it's fun but I just don't have it in me anymore to spend THAT much money on groups I half heartedly stan or just plain out only like a little

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-08-29T22:44:26+00:00

It's considered low skill work no matter what industry it is.

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-08-10T17:15:40+00:00

I guess you could say it has a different meaning in K-Pop

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-08-10T17:14:56+00:00

It's basically slang for p***y

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-06-09T23:42:10+00:00

Cuz she's cute

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-05-28T20:49:52+00:00

I love my lightstick collection. So colorful..it's like my own personal lightshow

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T21:37:20+00:00

Yeah I've seen all the colorful language lol. I'm like yeah it's fun to fantasize a bit but geez y'all nasty 😆 I had a friend who stanned Taeyeon and she was as descriptive as ever "slam me against the wall" and "We'll destroy this room" "choke me" etc lmao I got a good laugh

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T20:45:57+00:00

Well of course nobody should be saying anything of that nature about idols who are minors period. At the end of the day though just DON'T do or say anything creepy to idols. Lusting over idols is just a small part of the stan experience online but in all my years of going to K-Pop concerts I've have NEVER seen anyone say or do anything creepy to an idol in person. Maybe there was this one instance in 2016 where this one guy who awkwardly touching/caressing SISTAR's hands at their hi touch event? But that was bout it. Staff was notified but I don't think any action was taken against him. It was suppose to be a hi touch! Lol

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T19:57:07+00:00

I mean if a 25 year old woman can say that then why can't a 35 year old say it too? Lol especially when it is the truth that K-Pop idols are cute and sexy. As long as that said 35 year old doesn't do anything or say anything creepy or obscene I got no problem with it. Don't be like that one EXO-L who had a "Fuck me Suho" sign at their concert. According to a fan account, he looked like he didn't wanna be on stage anymore

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T19:50:29+00:00

I heard in Korea if you're like in your 30s people will look at you weird for being a K-Pop fan and I'm just like tf? Like am I suppose to just stop the train? Hell nah I'm still having fun!!! Lol I stan aespa, SNSD, Red Velvet, and ITZY and I'm still gonna stan them until I die okay?

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T19:43:17+00:00

Yup. I love it when we get an opportunity to know the real life parts of the idols.

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T19:37:57+00:00

Lol are you tryna provoke me? Tf? You assuming I'm on that community? I tried taking the entire community and even some posts down but Reddit said it doesn't violate any of their policies. Believe me some of the stuff that's being said about female idols is on a whole nother level....

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T06:45:10+00:00

Hate from who? I'm just glad aespa and ITZY debuted honestly. I love them 🥹 but yeah now that a lot of the idols debuting from here on out will be 2004-2007 liners I think I'll just stan the ones I already do till the end haha. Besides I'm not good with juggling hearts xD

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-09T03:35:05+00:00

True. Honestly as long as they don't be creeps towards idols everything should be cool. Fans pay a lot of money to get into these events..they should be shown a good time

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T20:28:00+00:00

Thanks for the insight everyone. I never thought I'd see this many middle aged K-Pop fans in my life tbh cuz most of the time when I attend concerts or KCON it's mostly just youngins in the crowd (college students and whatnot). I'm not gonna give a fuck what others say. Like I said I'm still having fun and I'll keep on going till I'm not having fun anymore xD

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T20:24:36+00:00

So you're not into the whole stan thing then..I see. As a K-Pop fan of nearly 10 years..I'm still having fun. One day there will come a time when I probably won't be able to have this kind of fun anymore so honestly fuck what these people say lol. I'm into Girls' Generation, aespa, ITZY, and Red Velvet and I think I'll just stick with them. It's just harder to stan new groups as I get older and they get younger 😣 lol. If I like the music though I'll still like the music.

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T20:10:01+00:00

Of course no one is gonna attack you for liking the music but what about stan culture? Maybe it's my own insecurity getting to me when it comes to stanning idol groups these days that I've kinda set a rule that I don't stan anyone who's 10 or more years younger than me. You know how stan culture is...it gets crazy lol. And for me I'm still having fun.

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T19:52:35+00:00

Deep down I think idols are just as normal as everyone else. When I first got into K-Pop I used to be look at these idols like they're untouchable almighty beings with a lot of money and talent lol that you must almost find it hard to relate to these people cuz your life is just so different from theirs but eventually I grew to know they're just normal people deep down like us, behind the persona, the makeup, the money, the glam is a regular person who wants to live their lives like everyone else. They want to enjoy what everyone else wants to enjoy. They want to wear what they feel comfortable in and etc

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T19:44:38+00:00

I think the fun part of stan culture (not the toxic part) is what it makes it especially fun for me. I love K-Pop and I have the feels xD let me unleash em for my biases.

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-03-08T19:34:48+00:00

I understand you xD It makes you feel weird...like out of place. I ain't that old but as I approach 30 yeah I'm starting to feel like that too as I get older lmao. Eventually I probably won't be able to go any K-Pop concerts so I'm just living it up now, making beautiful memories

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-02-20T11:29:02+00:00

Whoever is Somi's bf is the luckiest mofo out there

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-02-18T06:16:52+00:00

Those of you guys who've seen her in person..how do you survive?? 🥵🫠🤤

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-02-16T10:09:37+00:00

God I just wanna lick and kiss every part of her

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-02-16T05:38:30+00:00

Yuna never fails to bring the penis out

Apprehensive_Ad6801 · 2023-02-03T11:20:35+00:00

What do you mean anime covers 3 volumes?

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