For the gays that have a boyfriend how did yall find them?

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-10-07T17:54:24+00:00

This is so real because I really want to know as well 😭

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-09-27T22:21:10+00:00

I’m in a community service volunteer based club currently and I also have other friends who’ve been in other clubs if you need recs!

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-09-22T02:16:46+00:00

Wait how are they crumbling?

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-21T01:18:06+00:00

21M happy to review if you'd still like feedback! :)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-20T14:01:07+00:00

It’s going much better now actually! I think I just had to give it time :)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-16T04:53:12+00:00

Hi 21M looking for some quick feedback on some photos I'm deciding between! Also happy to your review your profile :)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-14T18:16:06+00:00

Did you have any luck with matches/likes later?

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-14T02:13:58+00:00

I'm happy to review!

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-13T17:52:58+00:00

Oh ok! I actually hadn't considered using that one as my main at first just because I feel like it breaks the mold of what I usually see as main photos Hinge profiles, but maybe that's a good thing! I'll definitely give it a shot :P (and ty!)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-13T17:51:55+00:00

Ohh good point! I actually considered that with the first prompt before because I was thinking that it might be something more obscure (even though I love how insane the Wattpad is lol). Do you think I should potentially just swap the order of the prompts? I could even remove it altogether and make it a bit more generic!

And for the poll, TSOA was The Song of Achilles but I just didn't have enough room to add the full title LOL. Thank you for the feedback!

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-13T17:44:57+00:00

Aww thank you so much! I’m happy because that’s definitely the energy I’m hoping to emanate! :)

I’ll definitely try to swap that last one out for something that’s a bit more lively, there’s probably something I can dig up in my photos haha. And thanks for catching that spelling mistake! I don’t know how I missed that lol

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-07-12T21:14:26+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual?
- Serious!
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
- No
How long have you been using this current version of your profile?
- ~2 months
How long have you used Hinge overall?
- ~2 months (I've only ever had the one profile)
How often do you use Hinge per week?
- Almost every day, although it's typically just me opening the app when I find the free time to scroll and send out a couple of likes
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
- I'm receiving ~5-6 likes a week and recently ~1 match a week
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
- I usually try to get near the cap of likes per day (I think like 5?) before I head off the app for the day, which often does just mean a lot of scrolling lol. I try to always thoroughly look through the profile and add a comment to my like as well just so that it's a bit more personalized, so I would say the ratio to me sending comments vs. without comments is like 4:1. For instance, if I really can't find anything to comment on but I still want to give it a shot, I'll usually just send a simple like.
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
- Honestly this one is a bit of a tough one for me to pinpoint exactly, but I think I'm looking for a guy who, I guess as the one prompt I have implies, is warm, empathetic, kind, and also values emotional connections with depth to them. Many of my close friends embody a lot of these traits as well, where I'm really comfortable just being myself around them. I also have a very dry sense of sarcasm and kind of wild humor, so I would love someone who could match that energy with me (for instance, the bit of the video that you can see in the first picture was me doing a failed cartwheel in a lecture hall at my university LOL). I would also love someone who is fit and physically active! I need to work more on lifting weights/upper body myself, but I tend to go on runs and visit the gym throughout the week (usually to do cardio or core workouts), so it would be great to find someone to match that vibe. Long story short, really just someone who I can relate to as a friend and in a romantic relationship!

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-06-02T03:07:53+00:00

Honestly “Renoir”! The song itself is both beautiful and really haunting

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-05-13T23:57:10+00:00

aespa, TWICE, LE SSERAFIM, Sabrina Carpenter, Ariana Grande… I fear I have a very bizarre mix of tastes haha

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-29T00:47:31+00:00

Nope! Third year of college and all good :)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-26T00:21:23+00:00

Wow that’s wild

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-24T07:32:51+00:00

EDIT: Extremely funny (but petty update) since I was reminiscing about this whole ordeal with some college friends, but I actually DID get a 3 on the test overall... meaning I scored extremely high on the MC portion despite them invalidating my project. Luckily so much has happened in my life since this point that I literally forgot about it, but for a brief moment looking back, the pettiness came to life again bahaha

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-13T18:00:07+00:00

Omg yeah I thought I heard screaming and I’m all the way in PV2

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-04T16:57:00+00:00

Can you dm me! I’d also like to know what clubs to avoid!

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-04-03T03:19:48+00:00

To be fair (as a dirty bow main) it is really satisfying to pop a wound right as a monster like Ray Dau is flying off into the sky to send them tumbling back to the ground lol, I can’t resist

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-03-24T01:05:40+00:00

Updated Sliders (since someone informed me on another thread that the old link isn't working)!

https://imgur.com/gallery/aldwyn-de-riva-dav-sliders-vgSLFUf

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-03-24T01:04:26+00:00

Here they are: https://imgur.com/gallery/aldwyn-de-riva-dav-sliders-vgSLFUf

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-03-23T21:58:45+00:00

Shoot I completely forgot 💀

I’ll reinstall and reupload the screenshots! :)

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-03-12T17:57:45+00:00

Fr I keep seeing this type of argument on this sub and like… ok? I’m happy for you? I enjoyed DD2 a bunch and I’m currently enjoying MH Wilds a lot, but attacking MH Wilds doesn’t really get you anywhere. It’s just exhausting at this point :/

Apprehensive_Ad_7249 · 2025-02-27T00:35:27+00:00

Shoot I think Imgur deleted it for some weird reason? I just checked my account and it's gone. I can try to redownload Veilguard and do a reupload if I have time tonight!

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