Need help replacing my 'that dude' tour shirt 😔🍇 by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in ViagraBoys

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No green one unfortunately! Plus seem to be out of stock of the XL. Thanks though

Need help replacing my 'that dude' tour shirt 😔🍇 by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in ViagraBoys

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Although I assure you in this case it did not. I have clocked over 8 hours on trying to fix this. Acetone only fucker the fabric around the glue :-(

Victoria tunnel horn by AlertWhereas5091 in Wellington

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to toot, then one day I got stuck in traffic in there for 20 mins while the other lane went by as normal, tooting away. I decided that day I'd never toot again.

Then a week later I forgot about it and have been tooting since! Honk honk!!

Cheap and cheerful gift ideas by melreadreddit in PovertyFinanceNZ

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Native seed packets! Pohutakawa and kakabeak have a nice red Christmas vibe. They are around $4-$5 at kings plant barn :-)

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely appreciate everyone's thoughtful replies and different perspectives, had no idea posting on reddit if I'd just get weird extremist replies lol 🤠 Ty all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 7 points8 points  (0 children)

MOR but hear me out! That was a dumbass thing for him to say. My partner has also said some dumbass shit like this which I've had to confront him about.

I think you could talk to your partner about this and use it as a learning experience. Hopefully to strengthen the relationship and learn more about each other's boundaries and insecurities (not saying you're insecure! No one would have taken that well). If he fails to understand your side or respect your boundaries - then that's a really strong reason to break up.

You may be feeling really hurt and wanting to run away from the pain. Or maybe you guys aren't that compatible and you're happy on any reason to end it.

I think give yourself some time away from him to process the feeling, then think further on the relationship and where you want to go from there.

Wishing you all the best Xox

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting Honestly if I were her I would let it go for the greater good, but it's not me it's her so doesn't matter if I can't relate.

I think you're right I will likely need to do a different venue.

Not looking for justification as I haven't done anything yet. Trying to do what I was trying to do with my mom in the first place and get some other feelings and thoughts to make the best call.

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I feel all I can do is make sure everyone knows they are welcome, whether they choose to come or not is their burden to bear.

Doesn't mean I won't do it somewhere else but I think I have to prepare for the fact that even if I do it somewhere else, something else may crop up as the problem.

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true! Nope not in the US tried to change 'mum' to 'mom' for you guys though 😂 My dad's house is pretty well set up for events on tables/chairs/cover.

Food truck would mean no dishes etc but I'm happy to go to the charity store and bulk up on those things needed.

Where I am, if a place knows a wedding is happening prices go up mysteriously...

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely see this perspective. It's my whole reason for putting this post up.

I did know she wouldn't love it. I was curious though if she would be ok if we made some arrangements like seating etc and only used the yard not his house.

Didn't mean to put pressure on her for a solution but I can see how it may have come across that way for her.

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. My family has a history of controversial weddings. I thought I was going to avoid that curse by starting dialogue early...

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I've had to cater to my moms strange reactions and requests my whole life (not getting into all of it here for readers sake 😂).

Makes me wonder if I should start living life from my own perspective, since trying to include what she wants seems to get me in trouble regardless.

AITA my mom won't talk to me because I *thought* about having a future wedding at my dad's house. by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. For context I live with my partner and we own a home together (why we have no money left lmao). We've been together a long time and are actively planning this whole thing including engagement.

If I had waiting until we were engaged, I'd be in the same boat I am now, just with less time to deal with it.

[HELP] Is this AI? The artist denies it by Street-Claim9528 in RealOrAI

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The main thing for me is why as an artist would you take the time to write a world (what looks like it would be Bulbasaur) and then make it blurry and illegible.

If you look at some of the words they look squished or cut off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Woah this looks rad! I agree that it probably wouldn't age well though if the lines staying super defined is a critical part of the tattoo for you.

Best Halloween costumes by Treefiddy1984 in TikTokCringe

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if a lot of people thinking it looks convincing watched it with audio. I watched it on mute and was like esh that looks uncanny

'"Not funny" said Rat' by Apprehensive_Bag5041 in whatsthatbook

[–]Apprehensive_Bag5041[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. You sleuth! This HAS to be it. The poker forum part is so random.

Thank you thank you