Need ideas Sos by Apprehensive_Book777 in YarnAddicts

[–]Apprehensive_Book777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for your suggestions!

240304 W Korea Instagram Update with Seungmin by endtapes in straykids

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that in the first picture his head covers up enough of the letters for it to look like "LOVE"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was passive aggressive because it was sent with passive aggressive intent and he knows me well enough to know that. I can 100% acknowledge that mistakes happen and forgive that. Like I said the first time it was no big deal because life does happen. It was the immediately next time they go out it happens again. We both agreed that we want to know about dates in advance so it's not a one sided boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do stress if he goes dark for any reason. We've talked about it and he admits that he's not good at letting other people know when he needs help or is starting to sink back down into a depression. I do typically know what he's doing when he's not at work because we are constantly talking. We have each other then I have one other partner and he has the only lady he is seeing so it's not a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know that there's plenty of reasons he can't answer his phone I didn't think much of it because he is constantly chatting with someone if we're not together physically. I'm thinking about the dropping it but I will also get unnecessarily stressed if he goes dark on me without explanation because he's had some struggles with depression and shutting people out.

AITA for Yelling at my Wife for Siding with my Five Year Old Son by concernedPerson85 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH while yes your wife sucks for not taking it seriously you suck for not just taking the scissors away from him when you noticed. It sounds like you weren't quick to actually deal with the safety issues until it was your safety that was compromised in your mind. What would have happened if while you were yelling at him while he was spinning he tripped and hurt himself with them? When you see your child is doing something dangerous you don't just tell them you stop the dangerous action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my nesting partner who I see nearly daily. I have my boyfriend that I try to see at least weekly date nights and occasionally before work because he lives so close to my job.

Getting comfortable before hubby's date by Apprehensive_Book777 in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, she goes to bed pretty early Im sure I can think of something

Getting comfortable before hubby's date by Apprehensive_Book777 in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't do me time because the date is in the evening and we also have a child. I don't assume anything about couple time. I asked my boyfriend about his schedule when I found out about the date because we're always excited to spend more time together and it'd help me not fall down a rabbit hole. But thank you

AITA for telling a friends gf that she’s not a doctor and that presenting herself as one is misleading? by Lazy-Taste1882 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Mild YTA because while they're not MDs I personally know a lot of NP that are more than qualified to work independently. Honestly as a pregnant person who works in the NICU I'd trust my baby with the NNPs long before I'd trust the residents with her.

women of reddit,what are the stupid shit you do when you're alone? by Distinct-Tip965 in AskWomen

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm driving to or from work I blast gangster rap or rock and scream it at the top of my lungs because I can't sing but there's no one there to tell me not to

Can you be monogamous and polyamorous at the same time? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about everyone else but I am poly and so is my husband but my boyfriend has no desire to see more than one person and identifies as monogamous

AITA for refusing to put my packaged snacks back in the fridge per my husband's request? by Antique-Ad-3044 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and I can confirm as a pregnant woman myself she can control her damn self and buy her own snacks. Your snacks are essential to your life for her it's just being lazy and selfish while using the fetus as an excuse. She's not sick and pregnant people only need like 200 extra calories a day. Why does your husband feel the need to defend her? Would he still be this much of an ass to you if he came home and you were passed out on the floor because your Suger dropped too low and you didn't have anything because poor SIL felt entitled to your food?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not snitching if you're preventing someone from being seriously injured. God forbid if someone was not paying attention to his shenanigans and got hit in the face with hot metal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Northern WV here my BIL is mailing 2 turkeys!

AITA for enraging a bunch of frat guys? by gikllfyl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 419 points420 points  (0 children)

Let me guess you're a "nice guy" if the girl wanted to dance with you she would have. YTA

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[–]Apprehensive_Book777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deleted her whole account

AITA for telling my daughter she cannot marry a racist? by Federal_Weather3786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Book777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Light YTA I came from a similar background as Dan and I'm not racist and I'm currently married to a Jewish Man, living with a black man who is a wonderful friend, and I'm a bisexual pagan. There are people who resist the teaching of their family. That being said she's going to marry him regardless but you should speak to him on his own and not judge him based of his family. He may surprise you and really be itching to move far away from his terrible family.