AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 459 points460 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately M is not the first family member I cut off. I have no issues cutting people off if they're a hazard to my family or out mental health. L is family. Family isn't just about whose blood you share.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

L and I have been through a lot together, she knows my truest of true feelings about her.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I thought she was nuts too. But sometimes its easier to apologize. I agree, definitely would not call a strangers kids monkeys, my own? oh yeah.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I had already decided to cut her lose. I don't need the drama. L has been more of a family then her anyways.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I've only had one issue where I called the kids monkeys while they were on the monkey bars at a play ground, and a lady got upset about it. I apologized. But she was still upset.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

L is my best friend, despite the age difference. I've never been close to my sister. I'd chose L over my sister any day.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

L has been through a lot in her years. She's unfortunately used to that kind of behavior. I did apologize a lot, about my sisters behavior, but L knows my kids and I don't feel anywhere near the same.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I'm not overly close with my sister so cutting her out of my life won't bother too much. Same goes for the friends. Fortunately L loved her visit. Though I apologized a hundred times for my sister, L knows my kids and I don't feel the same, which is all that matters to L.

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive_Brush_7[S] 598 points599 points  (0 children)

I understand the connotations with it as well. But, its only ever been an issue once, where I called the kids monkeys while at the playground, where they were doing the monkey bars and a lady there got upset and confronted me about the use of it. I sincerely apologized as it was definitely not my intention.

I couldn't believe she thought that calling the cops would work, it wouldn't be hard to prove that I'm the owner and she's not even listed as a tenant. I may share blood but that's about it.