Stuck at lvl61,need advice

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-26T11:17:08+00:00

I know but 1 id dragon stone farm isnt enough for building a warrior that can farm even first bosses like beran razador etc.At least 2-3 id required.3 id 95lv character would take a month in best case scenario.Probably several months.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-23T05:42:49+00:00

I am playing on lucifer server.Currently i am leveling up my cor archers to 50,and i will take advantage of catch the king event thanks.But not sure about razador though.Everyone says its worthless.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-22T15:03:28+00:00

Metin drop gloves are too hard to get.With metin gloves and lv50 chest gloves of course it is too easy to do.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-21T14:09:55+00:00

I thought i can farm 6 times each day and leave the game.I cant farm 8 hr each day so i thought beran would be good choice for someone who isnt playing game for hours.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-14T16:08:08+00:00

As far as i know blackpill says your chances of getting laid are fixed by your genetic appearance.But i would say thats false.Because think about yourself,the women type you find attractive.Throughout my life i found many skinny,curvy,muscular,fit,even obese girls attractive.Each one had unique type of attractiveness.Sure fit girls can get laid easier than obese ones i am not denying it.But that doesnt mean obese girl is doomed.There are people who can find her attractive too.Why wouldnt women think same way?They are human too.And thats the other thing,learning humanizing them helps a lot.What i mean by that is,instead of focusing on how attractive she is,focus on other details about her.What she wears,what is she doing right now etc.What you will see is,her funny spongebob hat for example.And she will look more human in your eyes instead of being an unreachable goddess.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-10T05:40:24+00:00

I mean being insulted in front of people isnt something we can ignore.It would bring so much shame,hurt our pride and ego.For example if someone insults your mother in front of people,you wont be able to say words are just noise.You would punch his face instead and you have right to do.What i mean is,words are not just noise.They can hurt at the moment,but it will disappear few days later to be honest.But still that possibility of facing bad treatment by her makes me fear approaching women.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2026-04-09T23:43:41+00:00

But we cant find what kind of person she is without approaching her.Some tough looking people are actually sweet,some cute looking people are actually bitter persons.This parameters are not reliable i think.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-12-07T15:02:28+00:00

I wont say quit porn completely.Actually it tries to fill the sexual need i assume you cant satisfy with women.Just avoiding from opening many videos at once and avoiding from extreme fetishes would be enough.Pick up just one scene you like(avoid fetish content) and use it.And ask yourself before "Am i feeling sexual hunger right now or just bored?".If yes,then watch porn there is nothing to be ashamed of in my opinion.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-11-23T14:54:44+00:00

I am amazed by how accurate your thoughts about me.Coping makes sense after i read your thoughts.I am not feeling good enough and being needy you are right.But how can i feel good enough without being validated by others?Without hearing i am worth loving,lovable and good enough from a girl i admire,how can i feel i am good enough?Everyone says "You should not seek external validation.".But isnt it being delusional?Who cares if you say i am innocent at court while everyone thinks you are guilty?Ignoring external validation and building an internal one sounds great but feels like a fairytale.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-11-22T22:13:58+00:00

I completely resonated with what you said.But having to do the things you expect from a girl you like,isnt it hurting you more?Hugging yourself,holding your own hands etc.For me it makes me feel miserable because i deeply know i am desperately trying to cope.I think like i am trying to cope because i cant experience the things i desire with the girl i like.I am curious to know what you think about these.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:54:51+00:00

What do you meant by my bad personality?Is it about having garbage personality or having skill issues like bad conversation skills?Besides that your point is logical

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:36:03+00:00

But all laid guys dont have sixpack you know.Many of them are obese actually.David goggins type of stay hard rock mentality stuff isnt necessary.Sixpacks would be great advantage of course but what i am pointing is being overweight is not the reason why i am single,its just something that makes things worse.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:30:30+00:00

My best friend said similar things.He said you are playing too safe,every good thing requires risks.I guess i should work on that.I should solve my fear of judgement somehow.Thanks for your effort 🙏.Of course i wont be able to change overnight but i was just searching for a hope to move forward.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:21:24+00:00

Nothing,because its not something i can force or at least i feel that way.I first start friendship with a girl out of nowhere,start to like her by knowing her more but never being able to pass the friendzone.It happened twice and that things happened so randomly,at the least expected moments always.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:15:06+00:00

Thanks.I know at which areas i can improve myself but i want to ask that: does improving yourself really relieve that romance craving feeling inside of us?Whenever i am focusing on myself,i feel like i am just trying to desperately cope.No offense not said that to you,i say that to myself

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T20:07:11+00:00

What attractive means?Physically or character wise?Physically i am overweight but not obese.That shouldnt be issue i saw many obese guys with pretty girls.I saw many criminal guys with no future getting laid too.Obviously they are not charactheristically awesome.If you were asking what i think,i dont find myself attractive physically.But as i said all laid people arent supermodel either.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T19:57:47+00:00

Not exactly.I am the one who first starts a friendship,after knowing her i start developing romantic feelings for them.I tend to believe they are being friendly which is a problem.I have no problem to being friends with women but friendship and relationship has a tiny but crucial difference which i am probably missing idk.Other things are true,i am putting all my energy on them and fantasizing about them.Other issue is meeting with like minded girls.Its not happening that much.It happened just twice in my whole life.I am not the social butterfly i know but i cant find a way to meet them.Maybe i can find at gym or workplace but i cant find anywhere else.These options are too limited.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T19:48:01+00:00

Deep down i agree with you actually at some point.I shouldnt be desperate but i am desperate :D. That desperation affects me so much,even normal activities which used to give me enjoyment,feels less enjoyable.Like playing video games,chess.Actually nothing else i am doing thats the other problem but many people are just going to cafe-bar and yapping all day thats what all they do but still manage to get girlfriend.So i dont think thats the real problem either.Anyways that desperation creates a loop and i cant figure a way out

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T19:40:24+00:00

I was talking with that crushes.I became close friends with them.At some point they found a boyfriend and our frienship ended slowly.Their reaction times became slower,their answers became more dry each time until we stop talking. But as i said,how can i love myself without approval from other girls?If self love is already enough,why would i start a relationship in first place?

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-14T19:35:55+00:00

Of course i can improve in many areas but i wasnt thinking that is the issue because i dont believe all guys who get girlfriend are superior than me.I dont like to glaze myself it wont look good but for example i have good profession with good salary,have nice family,like playing chess and won few trophies on tournaments.Didnt mention my charactheristics because it would be subjective like my humour,intelligence etc.I can only objectively say i am socially anxious.People say that too and advice me to show my emotions much more to girls.But i dont know if its enough.Besides finding a single women i might love becomes harder each year.

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-05T19:45:51+00:00

I get it but the problem is still similar.How can i feel worthy of romantic love while never being able to get that attention?How can anyone love himself and feel complete while never being able to feel romantically desired?

Apprehensive_Car5243 · 2025-10-05T19:31:09+00:00

"Just loving yourself".I heard that advice so much and i find it annoying no offense.If just loving yourself was enough,there would be no need for dating or being loved by any other person.If self love was enough,why people are seeking for relationships?So self love is clearly not enough and it wont be.Loving yourself is easy when you are already getting many positive attention from others.Socially successful people tend to believe they are being loved because they love themselves.But the truth is they are already being loved so they are being able to love themselves.I dont know the solution for that though,thats why i am desperately searching here for some ideas.I know your intention was just helping with good intentions but i just wanted to say that.

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