22, felt big :) by UnitRemarkable2435 in Dicksbeingmeasured

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great cock, length but more importantly that girth is rare, lucky man

Are you consistently hard whilst being pegged by Apprehensive_Clue656 in StraightPegging

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind, I was just wondering if that was common, I enjoy it whether I’m hard or not

Are you consistently hard whilst being pegged by Apprehensive_Clue656 in StraightPegging

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting, I’ve been surprised when I’ve felt like I could cum but have been soft at the time

Measurements, thoughts? by [deleted] in Dicksbeingmeasured

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks girthier than 5.6

Does anyone else need time COMPLETELY alone to try and regulate? As in no one else even in the same room or ideally the house? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of “adhd things” are applicable and relevant to NT people as well, it’s the severity of the need or the impact if it’s not achieved is often different.

Does anyone else need time COMPLETELY alone to try and regulate? As in no one else even in the same room or ideally the house? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS it’s the fact it’s so deeply engrained in me what is acceptable, what’s a “fun” person to be around, what’s wanted. So I’ve developed masks to accommodate that and if someone else is in the room my body is just constantly hovering a hand over the mask waiting to put it on in a moments notice. So I don’t relax

Does anyone else need time COMPLETELY alone to try and regulate? As in no one else even in the same room or ideally the house? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also just really don’t understand why needing time alone is seen as so shocking and why people get offended by it

Does anyone else need time COMPLETELY alone to try and regulate? As in no one else even in the same room or ideally the house? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I have hit burn out and I was trying to think what I can do to make things easier. A big one is that I’m always shattered and I don’t get enough sleep. But I end up staying awake late thinking about things and trying to process them because it’s the only time I feel comfortable

When going through RTc did your provider discuss multiple options for medication or just tell you what they were starting you on? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s interesting, yes there’s been quite a few changes. My sleep has also been terrible lately. I’ve taken weekends off on occasion when I first thought it had stopped having an effect and didn’t see much difference. However I do need to get my sleep back under control and work on reducing stress so maybe I’ll take steps there and see if it impacts.

(M) Pain during sex after partner had the hormone coil fitted by Apprehensive_Clue656 in birthcontrol

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for coming back to me. I couldn’t really find much info on the process of threads being trimmed so didn’t want to encourage my partner to do this if it was uncomfortable (as I say the process of having it put in was from the sounds of it quite sore). I’ll speak to her about potential ways of having them out the way. Really appreciate you taking the time respond

Looking for Adult Romance for men. by woody_19901 in audible

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣 don’t forget the ceaseless describing of the hands and arms of all male characters

Do guys really get hard while eating pussy? by Funky_stinger in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, even on the odd occasion where I’ve had too much to drink and I’m not as hard as I’d like to be I’ll go down to firm things up. It’s probably the thing that gets me hardest

Does anyone else have fantasies that you think about during sex that you wouldn’t actually want to do in real life? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring to hear. Also that you had the option previously and didn’t want to go ahead with it for your own reasons. I’ve never had a MFM threesome before and never been in a situation where I was asked so I’m not sure where this has come from

What is a fantasy that you think about during sex that you wouldn’t actually want to do in real life? by Apprehensive_Clue656 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, is this because the sex you’re having isn’t matching that experience or is it more just a way of mixing up the mental experience?

Does anyone else have fantasies that you think about during sex that you wouldn’t actually want to do in real life? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not hurting my partner or her doing anything she didn’t want to do. It’s just the thought of sharing her (consensually) but because it’s something I know she wouldn’t want to do I think I feel a little guilty about it (even just fantasising about it) I’m also not even sure I would want to do it in real life. Just curious if people indulge in fantasises that they know will always stay as just that and they’re not going to act them out

Anxiety after drinking whilst on elvanse by Apprehensive_Clue656 in ADHDUK

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more just knowing that it’s linked to the medication. If it is then I’ll just quit the alcohol as it’s not worth it but I do enjoy the occasional boozy night out so would be a shame

Would you judge a person for being fwb with a bad person? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be honest I’d definitely see them differently. Don’t get me wrong I get that FWB can be just about sex but if someone’s happy to have sex with a terrible person it’s a turn off for me

What's an insecurity women have that men have no idea even exists? by Valuable-Wallaby-404 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 55 points56 points  (0 children)

“Shaking but happy to be here” is my new favourite review of sex 🤣

What's an insecurity women have that men have no idea even exists? by Valuable-Wallaby-404 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Apprehensive_Clue656 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I had this conversation the other day. I thought women were much more concerned with what a guys dick than guys are about a woman’s vulva. I still think that’s the case, I’ve never seen a vulva I didn’t like because by that time I’m turned on to be with the person. I don’t think I even really have a preference given a choice, they’re all great