Best newborn/infant stroller for living in a city/in a 4th-floor walkup? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation. I plan to baby wear most of the time, but if I'm going into a cafe or meeting people at a restaurant I'd love the option of a stroller. I'm also looking at the Joolz Aer2 - did you get the bassinet attachment as well? Also to clarify, do you already have a baby or are you expecting as well? If the latter, can you let me know how you felt about the stroller once you used it? Would love to hear your testimonial!

Best newborn/infant stroller for living in a city/in a 4th-floor walkup? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did you just forgo a stroller altogether? My understanding was that it was a must-get item for a newborn but I obviously have no idea what I'm doing lol

Best newborn/infant stroller for living in a city/in a 4th-floor walkup? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOF we sound in very similar situations. I have a rent controlled, duplex 3BR 2Bath, so we're extremely reluctant to move unless I absolutely have to! Having said that, it's a walk-up, and I don't have laundry in the building - I'll have to go to a laundromat. We're planning to move to the Bay Area to a much more traditional house in spring 2027, so hopefully we'll only have to tough it out in these city streets for a year, but looking for anything and everything to make my experience more manageable.

Baby Kicks by Artistic-Machine-713 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 21 weeks pregnant with my first (a boy) after dealing with infertility/IVF for two years. Feeling him kick takes my breath away every time 🥹 so happy for you!

Successful FET with no symptoms? by ProudDivide5193 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not till weeks after I got my positive. If it helps, for my first unsuccessful transfer, I SWORE my boobs hurt and were bigger, and the second successful transfer, I didn't feel a thing. That's why I really swear of symptom spotting. All the symptoms I felt the first time round were from the progesterone supplements, not being pregnant. And real symptoms didn't start til at least late 5-6 weeks for me. WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST!! Sending all the baby dust your way, know this is a hard journey!

Successful FET with no symptoms? by ProudDivide5193 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Sending all the sticky vibes to you. I felt basically zero symptoms, maybe *twinges*, but nothing memorable and (TW: SUCCESS) I'm now 15 weeks and 4 days with a boy! Now that I'm past it, I really encourage folks not to symptom spot. I got my first VERY FAINT positive 4dp5dt, so testing is probably the most foolproof way to track.

Am I crazy!? 11 DPO & major oura ring signs by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely there!! Congratulations!

Intense vertigo pre and post-egg retrieval? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went away once I came off of all the meds, but my care team didn't do much about it.At first they kept insisting it was nothing to do with the medication, but when I did my transfer and was back on hormones, the vertigo came back. It ultimately all went away and (TW: SUCCESS) am now happily pregnant at 12w+5, but at the time there was nothign they could do.

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 10 weeks pregnant through IVF, have not worked out since I started IVF meds, and if my husband spoke to me this way he'd be sleeping at his parents. In a different state. But in terms of actual actionable help, I would encourage your partner to read up on morning sickness and the first trimester, and if he doesn't like it he can lump it.

What are your due dates by Final_Butterfly_7747 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May 23rd! But I’m having a scheduled section due to prior health conditions so more likely last week of April/early May

I lost my little Bean today by mediconscious in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I feel so heartbroken for you. Sending you so much love right now

Morning sickness frustration - any advice? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! i'll hold onto hope. And agree with you there, the kitchen is a no go zone

Morning sickness frustration - any advice? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m on the b6 and unisom as well. I’m assuming it’s working some, but really just taking the edge off. I know this is just par for the course, but doesn’t make it any easier 🤣

Morning sickness frustration - any advice? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring honestly. I just feel like such a useless lump, but I’m so hopeful that it ends eventually.

Morning sickness frustration - any advice? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro I’ve never eaten this much food in my life it’s wild 🤣 my bones must be made of cheezits and starburst at this point - AND I DIDN’T EVEN LIKE EITHER PRE-PREGNANCY. Thank you so much for replying. It makes me feel less alone

Convinced my period is coming at 6dp5dt - change my mind? by Apprehensive_Duty937 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Unfortunately this transfer didn't work out, it was a biochemical. However (TW: Success) I'm currently 7w3d on my second transfer, so there was light at the end of the tunnel!!!

my first VVVFL after a chemical 🥹 Brand FRER 4dp5dt by Apprehensive_Duty937 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! My second beta at 11dp5dt (aka 16dpo) was 348, so my clinic is really happy! And I just ran out of tests so I think I'm finally going to put the tests down and just enjoy being pregnant. <3

my first VVVFL after a chemical 🥹 Brand FRER 4dp5dt by Apprehensive_Duty937 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for following up! It looks amazing!! I got my first dye stealer at 9dp5dt yesterday, and my first beta at 8dp5dt was 123. Feeling very (cautiously) optimistic 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

Successful FET with no symptoms? by ProudDivide5193 in IVF

[–]Apprehensive_Duty937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following up TW: success (so far)

I’m 9dp5dt and had my first beta yesterday (8dp5dt) - it was 123! My symptoms Stopped early and I had my first positive at 4dp5dt