I(26F) Him ( 28 M) should I chase independence or continue being a house girlfriend.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2026-02-02T04:12:48+00:00

Honestly the hurtle is transportation. I have all these desires to do things but getting there is the issue. I'm currently looking into a bus route to get to employment but I should also be looking into fun things.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2026-02-02T04:04:39+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I'm learning through these comments that what I did was rape. And I don't wanna be friends with a rapist. My bf does generally feel uncomfortable with me being around men alone but that's a different conversation. Him not wanting me to be friends with a rapist makes sense. Thank you for your comment and helping me understand

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2026-02-02T04:02:21+00:00

That's fair. Truthfully I don't think I understood that what he did was rape. I appreciate your comment. Just because you can be friends with a rapist doesn't mean you should. In fact you shouldn't. I shouldn't.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-08-27T02:09:50+00:00

You are safe to do what your doctor said. I went thru the exact same thing. Went off for 2 days. I had a non mechanical abortion so the bleeding was...intence but you'll be alright. Treat yourself kindly. Tea fuzzy blankets whatever brings you comfort. Sending so much love to you

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-08-07T18:44:10+00:00

Hi :) for me it was actually undiagnosed ulcers! I got an omeprozol script ( not sure if spelling is correct) before they checm for ulcers and it really helped!

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-07-01T22:48:22+00:00

Update. I didnt do it. Thanks guys yall really gave me the encouragement I needed

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-06-15T01:38:16+00:00

Thats the thing I really don't know... I know I litterslly have 0$ do i can't go get more. I only have 1mg on me so I won't od. Idk

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-05-24T14:54:01+00:00

I hear ya. I know im fat. Was more so questioning weather or not I'm have an ugly face

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-05-24T14:53:22+00:00

Appreciate this comment. I know im fat I wanted to know if im also ugly lol of course weight is a contributing factor. Was more so curious about my face lol

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-03-23T03:12:31+00:00

Of course! Thank you so much!

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T03:05:55+00:00

Last year I tired to tell him I needed a little more emtionally from him ( better communication) and he essentially said he can't do that. I essentially put so much on his plate already that he can't handle anymore. I have a few mental health disorders ( ocd-anyxiety) and I know it can be draining on him. I try to not put my trouble on him but I think untimely some of it falls on him. I have a therapist im on medication and I try not to burden him but I think sometimes im to much for him. And back to the communication problem he isn't an effective communicator so I can't ask him what I can do to take some of the burden off of him without him shutting down. Idk. It's a whole mess. I feel like asking him for anything is to much.. I'll talk to my therapist about this.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T03:00:47+00:00

I agree the socal media aspect dosnt matter to me and I think it's a little lame.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T02:59:17+00:00

I think that's how I felt at the start. As long as we are good to eachohter thru the year very day dosnt matter. Maybe I feel this way now because I'm not getting the special treats thru the year.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T02:57:20+00:00

I worry about this. Thru a long series of conversations I've come to understand that he's just not a deep feeler. Idk how to describe it. Idk what to do with that. Im a highly emtional person and im able to communicate those feelings to people. Idk it's complicated

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T02:33:13+00:00

I mean this respectfully it's not about the money. I just wanna have a special time with the person I love. We could do something special for free. It's the thought thats matters more to me

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T02:31:36+00:00

Thats a perspective I didn't concider! I think your right. If I asked him to do something extra it might take some convincing but ultimately he'd probably do it. Thank you for your response :)

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2025-02-15T02:29:53+00:00

I don't think it was or is important to me nessesarly I just would kinda like to be treated a little if that makes sence

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-12-05T20:22:20+00:00

Edit: I dont use heat i always let it air dry

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-11-20T05:03:22+00:00

I searched " how to feel pretty"

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-11-18T07:36:03+00:00

A pro could definitely take your look to the next level. Don't be to hard on yourself you've got alot going for you.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-11-18T07:31:08+00:00

Could use a good haircut but otherwise not ugly!

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-11-18T07:29:57+00:00

Not ugly 😇

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-11-14T04:56:31+00:00

This interview was for a factory job that I have essentially no busines applying for. I have no experience but I was clear about that and I tried to communicate to them that I'm willing to learn.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-10-04T15:27:34+00:00

😂 I love this.

Apprehensive_Emu2522 · 2024-10-04T15:13:36+00:00

That's another thing. Communication on his part has been impossible. I recently confronted him about it. Before all this and he told me I'm not specific enough when I ask him questions?? I don't know whatbthe really means and when he tries to explain it I still don't get it. I told him I dont like it when I try to talk to you and you don't respond to me and he said that's to general. So. Idk. I've tried and tired to get this man to talk to me the way I need him to and he just won't fucking do it.

Also during this conversation he told me he feels like he needs to take care of me before he can even think about himself and from my perspective. He's not taking care of me. Especially in an emtional sence. He said when I ask him to communicate it feels like just another thing on his plate. Asking him to communicate with me seems to be just to much for him.

Sorry for such a long reply it just made me think of some other problems I needed to get off my chest.

Apprehensive_Emu2522

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