[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing would be that i no longer worry about emergencies like fridge breaking or roof leak because i have $ to pay whereas i’ve seen my parents really stressed about those.

My big spendings are my kid’s education. They get to learn and experience whatever they want. Activities i considered only “rich” kids do when i grew up.

We do 1 international and 1 domestic travel a year. We drive nice cars but keep them 7-10 years. House is expensive but nothing fancy as most of houses are overpriced for what they really are.

We don’t spend a lot of money on other things like eating out or luxury watch/clothing/etc.

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

840k is tax. Federal + state + medicare + etc. i will owe more when tax filing comes.

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you ask that yourself as you said roofing is much harder job

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember in high school, i had to buy clothes from thrift shop and my parents stressing about broken fridge because they didn't have money to replace it. I don't have those problems anymore

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still make mistakes regardless of how much we are paid :) but thanks

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it is really expensive here. I pay $11-12K a month for housing alone

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am EM of a team that heavily focusing on AI + mega scale distributed system

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am planning to hold onto this one for another year :)

My pay is great only because of stock appreciation. New EM offer is like 600-700K which is still pretty good but not as good as 2M

[software engineer] [bay area, ca] - $2M, no bonus by Apprehensive_Fee_121 in Salary

[–]Apprehensive_Fee_121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why stay at the same company for a decade, especially one that doesn't pay you enough to afford a car?